so i just messaged my exs(babys father) mom on fb... letting her know that she has a grandchild out there.
not sure if i should have done that.
or the response i might get. if any.
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Tay·
В ожидании первенца
I think you did the right thing
Samantha·
Мама дочки-младенца
yeah me too.. but im still mad nervous .. like id want to know if it were me.. @lumbeemama
Tay·
В ожидании первенца
I definitely would want to know. Hang in there and keep confident about your decision. You did the right thing for her and your child.
Samantha·
Мама дочки-младенца
i hope she responds. i just have a feeling that he fed them some bullshit story and they arent going to beleive me. i was with him for a year he pretty much lived with me and his father had no idea. and he dropped him off at my place multiple times. my ex is just great at spinning stories.
Samantha·
Мама дочки-младенца
@lumbeemama,
Dounia Gregorio·
Мама сына-младенца
I did something like that with my dad's family, I didn't know if they knew I had a son and got married because my dad's a dick and disowned me.. (long story ) but they were happy to know and they want to meet him and be in my family's life. you did the right thing
Tay·
В ожидании первенца
If she doesn't respond it's her loss and you were ultimately the bigger person.
Andrea M.·
Мама дочки-младенца
personally I wouldn't have done that because if they cared they'd be looking for you to see the baby not the other way around. I'm that type that if you don't hit me up asking about my child then my child doesn't need you.
Samantha·
Мама дочки-младенца
@myjulyprincesseli, he never told them. they didnt even know we were together/ he was living with me for a year. he told them that he was living with some friends.
Andrea M.·
Мама дочки-младенца
whattttaaaaa WOOOOOOOW. now that's a different story. I woulda done the same
Samantha·
Мама дочки-младенца
i figure id give them the chance to decide if they want anything to do with her or not. but i also felt like i needed to tryfor her. so that when my daughter grows up she knows i tried
Samantha·
Мама дочки-младенца
@myjulyprincesseli,
Andrea M.·
Мама дочки-младенца
Yeah I definitely agree with you. you're doing the right thing ♡
Keisha B·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (29 нед.)
@babychloe, sounds like we have the same baby's father 😂 I think what you did was just fine but if they don't care for the news then let it be, you'll go nuts trying too hard. Happened to me and my ex's other two baby moms. Luckily his family okay well most of them accepted the kids that he had after the paternity test. He still disowns them when there is proof. Some men are scum.
Breanna·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (9 нед.)
I hope you get a response but if you don't at least you tried. I hope all goes well for you and your baby. btw she's cute as hell and he's definitely missing out (:
Sarah krashin·
Мама троих детей
if you don't friend her she might not see it unless she has a regular computer other wise messages go to others,but I would have dud the same