so i just messaged my exs(babys father) mom on fb... letting her know that she has a grandchild out there. not sure if i…

if you don't friend her she might not see it unless she has a regular computer other wise messages go to others,but I would have dud the same

I hope you get a response but if you don't at least you tried. I hope all goes well for you and your baby. btw she's cute as hell and he's definitely missing out (:

@babychloe, sounds like we have the same baby's father 😂 I think what you did was just fine but if they don't care for the news then let it be, you'll go nuts trying too hard. Happened to me and my ex's other two baby moms. Luckily his family okay well most of them accepted the kids that he had after the paternity test. He still disowns them when there is proof. Some men are scum.

Yeah I definitely agree with you. you're doing the right thing ♡

@myjulyprincesseli,

i figure id give them the chance to decide if they want anything to do with her or not. but i also felt like i needed to tryfor her. so that when my daughter grows up she knows i tried

whattttaaaaa WOOOOOOOW. now that's a different story. I woulda done the same

@myjulyprincesseli, he never told them. they didnt even know we were together/ he was living with me for a year. he told them that he was living with some friends.

personally I wouldn't have done that because if they cared they'd be looking for you to see the baby not the other way around. I'm that type that if you don't hit me up asking about my child then my child doesn't need you.

If she doesn't respond it's her loss and you were ultimately the bigger person.

I did something like that with my dad's family, I didn't know if they knew I had a son and got married because my dad's a dick and disowned me.. (long story ) but they were happy to know and they want to meet him and be in my family's life. you did the right thing

@lumbeemama,

i hope she responds. i just have a feeling that he fed them some bullshit story and they arent going to beleive me. i was with him for a year he pretty much lived with me and his father had no idea. and he dropped him off at my place multiple times. my ex is just great at spinning stories.

I definitely would want to know. Hang in there and keep confident about your decision. You did the right thing for her and your child.

yeah me too.. but im still mad nervous .. like id want to know if it were me.. @lumbeemama

I think you did the right thing