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Question. If the babies father wasn't happy about the pregnancy and didn't/still does not want a child, and the mother…

Question. If the babies father wasn't happy about the pregnancy and didn't/still does not want a child, and the mother still decides that she is going to keep the baby because she cant go ahead with an abortion. Is the very selfish of her? Is she fucked up?

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bugmama

AlexМама сына (4 года), беременна (11 нед.)

He's the selfish one. My now husband regrets how many times he tried to get me to abort our son because he love him a lot now.

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mummyx2

NikkiМама сына (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)

I am kept my baby girl that's due in 5 weeks, his loss...No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. own your decision we are strong mommies :-)

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noahsmomma613

SydneyВ ожидании первенца

I mean either way im obviously keeping my baby he can get to stepping if he wants but id be lying if i said i didn't feel really bad @jasmommy

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noahsmomma613

SydneyВ ожидании первенца

Lol you're right @inkinkedbarbie

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noahsmomma613

SydneyВ ожидании первенца

@snooks.,

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noahsmomma613

SydneyВ ожидании первенца

I take the blame for unprotected sex but i just needed other opinions. Thanks tho. I feel better

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jasmommy801

JasМама дочки (12 лет), беременна (16 нед.)

u wasnt ruining his life wen he was having sex with u. so tell him tough tittie. o well

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snooks.

RachaelВ ожидании первенца

if he wasn't ready then he doesn't need to be having sex, or he needs to use protection.

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noahsmomma613

SydneyВ ожидании первенца

@snooks.,

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noahsmomma613

SydneyВ ожидании первенца

I keep feeling like a bad person or like im ruining his life. Not because he wont be there but because he didnt want it and isnt ready and a whole bunch of stuff. @abreu864 @janine724 @babytj0214 @wannaboyplz

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ms.jones

TiffanyМама двоих (6 лет, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

It's not selfish or fucked up she just has to know that's she's signing up to probably be a single parent . The father is fucked up for only thinking. About what he wants .

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snooks.

RachaelВ ожидании первенца

Fuck that. my babydaddy told me it was the baby or him. Well, I'm due in 2 and a half weeks. A man cannot tell a woman what to do with her body. It is ridiculous to me how men will lay down and help create a child but then do not wanna man up

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abreu864

Kaisy

nope. I don't think it's fucked up. whether I was with the babies father or not and whether he wanted it or not I would keep the baby. 1 because I do not believe in abortions (for myself. I would support anyone who decides to have one) and 2 because it's what I want. MY body is going to go through the changes and I will be the one to decide for myslef.

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janine724

JanineМама дочки (8 лет), беременна (34 нед.)

No I don't think thats fucked up. I do believe the mother needs to be prepared for everything that comes along with keeping the child from being a single parent to having to explain to their child where their father is.

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wannaboyplz

AshleyМама троих детей

not selfish at all

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babytj0214

Baby Figueroa

no. she is doing the right thing. trust me your life will never be the same and you will be very happy with your child

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Still haven't told DH...

Still haven't told DH... ...that we're expecting! ? Tonight we were at dinner with my brother and SIL and they just had a baby 4 weeks ago. She said something about babies and DH replies, with such an attitude, "uh no! Never again, we are done!"