Part of me feels like i made a mistake taking my fiance back. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that i started…
Part of me feels like i made a mistake taking my fiance back. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that i started talking to an ex after i found out about my fiance cheating, and it all just felt natural. I was able to talk to him without feeling like i was being ignored, and i honestly forgot why we even split up, it couldnt have been anything major because he to this day pops into my head from time to time. the worst thing that happened in our relationship was his oldest daughter telling me she hated me. i dont know why i ended the relationship for that, i really dont, especially since she was 4 at the time and had even apologized later that day and again, she was 4. we had a really good thing going and i honestly think i just got scared. i had never had a relationship go that well before. but now, he probably wont speak to me, and he has every right to be that way. we had talked about the possibility of us maybe trying again. and then i took my fiance back. i still cant get passed the what-ifs, and it still lingers in my head that "well, hes probably still texting these girls" i love him but it scares the shit out of me that hes just gonna do the same shit again, and ive now "rejected" the one person who has also seemed to have my back, who hasnt stopped trying to rekindle things even after i left him. i feel like i made a mistake...
Andrea·
an its sad because its going to take a while for you to even forgive your fiancé that alone will have you thinking about your ex ...when you finally do forgive him however long that might take you'll always remember smh and that damages the trust
Kara·
Мама сына (5 лет)
thats exactly where ive been with it. and i just cant seem to get passed it. i put on a pretty good front trying to seem happy and with it, but im honestly still not happy and i dont think i can forgive him. @ilovemy4withtwins2016
Andrea·
Right....I'm still going threw it as we speak TRUST ISSUES I been with my s/o for 11an half years all of my children are to him I stayed an I just snap over everything I believe he changed but I'm still hurt an can't get pass the fact ...you just really need to think about what YOU really want its your life hun I hope your able to figure it out hun
Kara·
Мама сына (5 лет)
i just dont know if I'll be able to figure it out. part of me wants to stay with my fiance, but thats the part of me that has gotten comfortable with him being around the last year, then the other part is saying "get Chris back, he never cheated on you and treated you like a damn goddess" its just too much. i told my fiance how im feeling, but he'll probably just brush it off and try to act like everything is just peachy again. i just dont know. lol @ilovemy4withtwins2016
Andrea·
lol I was the same way back in 2004 I only had 1 child at the time I stayed I'm still with him we have 4 with twins on the way lol he definitely changed for the good he loves the ground I walk on its just me at this point probably because I'm pregnant an miserable some times lol....you'll be alright go with your heart
Andrea·
take sometime to think clearly
hailey·
Мама сына-младенца
I was with a guy on and off for 6 years and he would cheat on me and was rude. didn't care about how I felt and all that stuff and I thought he was the one that's why i always went back he would sweet talk me. but my husband who I never dated until this last year always took care of me even as friends. he stood up for me and I would never give him a chance because I didn't know how to handle being treated that right way. when I finally got over what ever fear I had we've now been together over a year and married for 6 months.
Rebeca De La Cruz·
Мама сына-младенца
same thing happen to me and right now i am in the same situation as you of the what-ifs.