I found out my boyfriend was looking for head mainly but sex on mutiple sites it's the first time hes ever strayed and I know its cause of the lack of sex in our relationship I also got to where I wasnt cleaning or even got out of bed [ I just found out I have gestational diabetes ] which is why I was so sick I'm currently 7 months pregnant with his first child. he said he thought I was cheating cause of my lack of affection to Him
he deleted all of his social media let me sync his gmail in my phone and even had me download a app that shows me his location at all times.
I'm also allowed to freely go through his phone...
Plus he hands me his paychecks now also.
I never thought I'd stay in a relationship like this but I really think hes putting the effort to gain my trust again .. hes even talking about marriage to show his commitment to me now.
I guess I'm looking for other women that was able to forgive and be happy again?
with everything hes doing I feel like he should get another chance any similar situations ladys??
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@kodijean, you can tell he’s trying.. it will definitely still be difficult until you guys can move
I would say if you want to, try to work it out. It sounds like he’s trying. The whole neighbor thing though would be super hard...
He keeps trying to remind me we will only be here for less then a year and we can move but it really doesnt help.
Honestly what is making this hard to forgive is one of the girls he found on pof was my next door neighbor and shes disgusting he was trying to get head from her. It's made me hate living here
You got. This girl. You guys can work it out. :)
After my daughter was born I was a horrible wife. I said mean hateful things and made my husband believe I didn't want him but it was just the hormones talking. He also was texting a girl but that's as far as it got. It was so shocking and hurtful because my faith in his love for had never been tested and I never ever doubted him before that. We did all the things you talked about him doing for you and here we are 4 years later pregnant with our next and happier then ever.
I feel like I got so comfortable I let go of myself and I know I did I didnt think hed actually stray its devastating when they do. I started taking care of myself again to.
I haven’t been there with my husband, but I think I would try to work it out. If it wasn’t a continuous thing. We are human and we make mistakes.
@kodijean, that’s most peoples first initial reaction. And it’s normally the one and toxic relationships.
Just remember if you are going to forgive him you have to truly forgive him. Or it won’t work out
@lakota-winyan right I know that I just know I will definitely be looking through his stuff alot
@kodijean, good luck. I hope y’all able to put this in the past and move forward happy again.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I Still Angry Because I Seen A Text From Another Girl In His Phone But He Said His Homie Uses His Phone To Text Females...BUT WHY ARE YOU LETTING HIM IF HE HAS HIS OWN PHONE ! I'm Not Understanding. The Way He Put It He Sounds Like Hes Telling Me The Truth..SHOULD I TEXT THIS BITCH AND CURSE HER LIFELESS ASS OUT FOR TRYING TO RUIN A REALATIONSHIP????
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
I just want his arms wrapped around me one last time and hear words come out of his mouth that arent true "I love you".. I miss him so bad. My first love! My first relationship! He was many of my first and I know today isnt even the hardest day yet.. I literally hate that I love him so much.
HELP!!! So my boyfriend hasn't came home in 24 hours he called today at 130 pm and said he was gunna be coming home soon. Its 9pm and he isnt home and his phone is off. The friend he was with I called and his phone is also off. I have a feeling they were drinking and his friend was driving. What should I do.? Getting real worried!
@momtooneboy but I also know hes trying to fix us it's a shitty situation