So me and my baby girls daddy aren't together anymore cuz we just fight to much. Last night he told me he doesn't want to be named on her birth certicate and that he doesn't really want to be around when she's born. How many mommies here are doing it alone?
You need to name him for legal reasons. I know it sucks and it's so stressful but he needs to financially support you. You don't have to talk to him, let the courts do it all for you. Just remember that child support pays for diapers and food. Those are things your baby cannot live without. Especially if money is tight for you. If you made a lot of money Or had a rich family I would say you could let him off the hook but in the situation you're in, it's not far to let him walk away without at least doing his part financially. He will eventually have to pay. Your baby deserves it.
I am! but I also have a new bf who is going to be up at the hospital everything. but my babies dad has completly givin up cuz I won't give in to anything.
me, n i have two other kiddos 5 n 3 yrs old it is hard not gonna lie but you get twice the love
All alone here as well. It's hard to stay positive I'm constantly discouraged and feel worthless 😩
Don't let him just walk away because he wants to be a jerk. He's still financially responsible for the child he helped create.
I just don't want to get the court involved. Plus he said if the court goes after him he's killing himself.