Make your own breakfast! At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then promised that on the mornings he doesn't work or the ones he works later he would feed him breakfast so I can have my relax time before having him all day long. Then every morning he is here he says he's not going to get him breakfast because he doesn't want to and sits there telling me to go make and feed our son breakfast. Then every time I remind him of his promise he rolls his eyes and gets butt hurt like wtf. You promised me these things I didn't make you and it makes me mad when you don't want to honor your word and then demand that I do it instead of at least asking me if I could. I feed my son his breakfast and now I'm eating mine in the kitchen because I'm just so irritated.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Autumn·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (12 нед.)
my 8 month old has been since 4 months!!! She has her mom's attitude and would pull it away from me and get mad if I held it for her! and she picks up pieces of steamed veggies and eats them okay!!! you could try propping it up to start!
Melissa·
Мама сына-младенца
@autumnrae, I've been doing that since about 5 months :( he used to have so much interest in doing things himself including holding his bottle from about 2-3.5 months. Then when five months came around and I actually tried to get him to do it himself he refuses now.
Melissa·
Мама сына-младенца
And I think it's because he gets himself to sleep by playing with his hair and rubbing his eyes using both hands the entire time he eats his bottle. If I try running my fingers through his hair he throws a fit because it's not him doing it @autumnrae
Autumn·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (12 нед.)
my daughter won't let me help her it's sad!!! I try to feed her and she seals her mouth closed! I set it down she picks it up and eats it!!! have you tried showing him how to? my friends baby would mimic her if she held a bottle of water and showed him or ate with him! @melisssa
Melissa·
Мама сына-младенца
@autumnrae, I'll try that! Thank you!