Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(
Pregnancy rant This is like my third post about this but I'm just at a loss at how to handle my situation. So I finally talked to my SO THROUGH TEXT and he basically said if I don't get an abortion, I am choosing my baby over him. He also said this isn't my decision and if he doesn't want the baby, I should just get rid of it. If I don't have an abortion, he doesn't want anything to do with me or "it."
if i don't want to give my baby the fathers last name, can he take me to court to change that?
Well mama I'm off my period I'm ready to TTC now give me sme tip I want to try this month cause i want a nother baby inbox me if u don't like wht I put up here don't comment
Ebony·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
I hear everything u guys are saying and thnk u. I want the baby its not my first child actually my 6th. I have 2 of my kids with me 2 r with their father and 1 with my mother. He says it isn't smart bc we will be taking care of 8 kids he has 2 of his own and I'm like how when u take care of 1 full time and I take care of 2 full time. idk still lost.
Morgan Harrison·
В ожидании первенца
As long as the baby has you loving him/her it will be okay. You will love that baby more than anyone else ever could. He may come around in the end but if he doesn't that's okay, you're not alone. My baby's father was mad when I told him I was pregnant by I told him I was keeping it no matter what. I'm completely ready to do it on my own but he came around and now it's me that doesn't want him around. My first few months were so rough because we were fighting all the time but it's so worth it because my baby girl will be here this week and I'm already so in love
LaTavia·
В ожидании первенца
went through the same thing with my daughters father, he said all kinds of things bout my child , he was demanding that I get an abortion and he was too sure that this wasn't his baby , so I simply told him that I don't need him in my childs life or mines , and so do what's best for you . I think if I would have aborted my daughter I would be living my life in regrets every single day.
Lauren B.·
Honey, this is the best advice I can give. Do what YOU want. Don't base your decisions off of what he wants. It doesn't matter because if he leaves you, YOU are going to be raising that baby and if you can see yourself being a mom, then go for it. It will be hard, but very rewarding I am sure. Do what YOU WANT. Not what he thinks, don't listen to what he says...listen to your heart.
Alicia·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
I have two girls and wasn't planning on more but I found out I was pregnant and my husband tried to force me into an abortion. It was the hardest 2.5 months of my life, but I stood my ground, and now I'm almost 5 months. I told him I'd leave and raise our 3 on my own if I had to and eventually he changed and he's came to a realization that he didn't want an abortion either and is in love with our growing unborn baby too. I briefly considered it too cause it was so hard not being able to tell anyone and having to fight with him everyday, but now I'm beyond glad I listened to my heart. Not trying to be an anti abortion pusher or anything but remember you're the one who has to live with this decision. One unplanned pregnancy saved us all.
Stephanie Valentine·
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this is my personal opinion of course but if I were in your shoes (a terrible spot to be in/:) I wouldn't get an abortion. if you really want this baby you should have this baby. it might be something you regret doing for the rest of your life. something you cannot take back and could hinder you from having any more children in the future. I screw what he thinks and what he wants. if he doesn't want this baby don't let him be any part of yours of the baby's life. don't tell him shit. but again that's just me and you can always make whatever decision you want to in the end.
Ebony·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
I agree. I just don't know what to do. it's getting harder the baby moves already. I have had an abortion before main reason I don't want to do it again. I have until 17 weeks before I can't legally do it anymore. I really don't know.
tiffany·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
I have had abortions they are not easy but sometimes things like that are best but ur pretty far along
Sabrina·
you don't want to be 18 years in with a man that is only going to make things harder. Think about what you truly want and what will be best for you and the baby. I'm not saying I agree with abortion but sometimes it may be better for the child not to be born in a bad situation, you could always considered adoption too, but I think you'd have to have his consent
Ebony·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
This will be my 6th child. It makes sense to do, I don't want to go through any of this alone having this baby or even getting an abortion. I'm already 3 months in.
Melissa·
Don't let him change you like that, stick to your intuitive feeling, if you want this, he can use the out or not, simple.
Deborah lamar·
Мама троих детей
praying it gets better