My boyfriend has already had sex with me, but he says he don't wanna touch me sexually or in any intimate way again until marriage, and that's years away. I don't even know if I'm serious with him yet, and he's pulling the "it was a mistake" card. I don't wanna stay abstinent for years.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
It happened....? 2.5 years and today was the day he heard me fart. I thought I could crop dust him, but it came out full force. He looked at me and busted out laughing. ?
Doctor told me I have to get Tdap shot if I haven't had it in the last two years but I don't wanna 😣😢. Does everyone have to get it?
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
I would be nervous if my girlfriend were pregnant with another mans baby. always the chance of the dad showing back up.
Nunya·
@lakilucid, is right. condoms reduce the risk of stds but not 100% so its worth noting.
Alissa Jackson·
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They check my blood I don't have anything lol. I will girl. Maybe he's just nervous about me having a baby @lakilucid
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
sit him down and talk to him. tell him how you feel.
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
well that's good. at least you are protected but condoms can fail. I would get checked personally. not to mention risks of infection.
Alissa Jackson·
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Yes we do @lakilucid
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
no man is going to randomly change his mind about sex. especially with a pregnant woman that they can't get pregnant. if his morals were such a priority he wouldn't have slept with a pregnant woman to begin with. seems to me like he's wanting a way out and hiding something.. I would talk to him.
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
actually if he is cheating it could affect your baby. do you use protection?
missing268user·
i say if hes acting that way break it off now isn't the time to play that game girl I actually agree with @lakilucid red flag
Alissa Jackson·
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I do put my baby first. My baby is fine while he's in my belly. I'm working every day to support me and him, but it has nothing to do with my sex life. @lakilucid
Alissa Jackson·
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Yeah.. I guess the whole love thing just wasn't for me. @lakilucid
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
why have sex with someone if you aren't serious about them? you are pregnant. now isn't the time to play the field lol you have to put your baby first.
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
that's a bs excuse. he knew you were clearly sexually active and had sex with you now he regrets it? doesn't sit right.
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
and yet this one is regretting being intimate with you? red alert.
Alissa Jackson·
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It's not his child. I've only been with him for 7 months. My baby's father bailed on me the second I found out I was pregnant @lakilucid
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
also my hubby and I were engaged and pregnant(condom and BC fail) a month after we got together. didn't marry until two years later.
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
but you're pregnant so clearly he didn't mind then. if it was a mistake then he needs to man up and break things off but still support his child.
Alissa Jackson·
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He said it was a mistake and he don't know why he kept doing it, but he's been withdrawing from me for months now, I just feel like he wants it to be over, just don't know how to say it. @hermommy
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@rylansmomma, what's long enoug? my SO and I where together for 4 months when he first proposed and a year before we married..
missing201user·
that's how I presently feel. late I know but i don't want to be intimate unless I am sure I want to spend my life with them
missing268user·
try talking to him, it would hurt my feelings too, but honestly of y'all aren't on the same page y'all don't need to be together sounds like he's kinda unpredictable @rylansmomma @aphrodite2014 she said she wasn't ready for that.
Alissa Jackson·
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I haven't been with him long enough to marry him. Lol @aphrodite2014
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
go to the courthouse and have a ceremony later that's what my SO and I did
Alissa Jackson·
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@hermommy,
Alissa Jackson·
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A little lol. I don't know weather I should stay with him, it kinda hurt me
missing268user·
alittle late for him to to be celibate lol?