My boyfriend has already had sex with me, but he says he don't wanna touch me sexually or in any…

alittle late for him to to be celibate lol?

A little lol. I don't know weather I should stay with him, it kinda hurt me

@hermommy,

go to the courthouse and have a ceremony later that's what my SO and I did

I haven't been with him long enough to marry him. Lol @aphrodite2014

try talking to him, it would hurt my feelings too, but honestly of y'all aren't on the same page y'all don't need to be together sounds like he's kinda unpredictable @rylansmomma @aphrodite2014 she said she wasn't ready for that.

that's how I presently feel. late I know but i don't want to be intimate unless I am sure I want to spend my life with them

@rylansmomma, what's long enoug? my SO and I where together for 4 months when he first proposed and a year before we married..

He said it was a mistake and he don't know why he kept doing it, but he's been withdrawing from me for months now, I just feel like he wants it to be over, just don't know how to say it. @hermommy

but you're pregnant so clearly he didn't mind then. if it was a mistake then he needs to man up and break things off but still support his child.

also my hubby and I were engaged and pregnant(condom and BC fail) a month after we got together. didn't marry until two years later.

It's not his child. I've only been with him for 7 months. My baby's father bailed on me the second I found out I was pregnant @lakilucid

and yet this one is regretting being intimate with you? red alert.

that's a bs excuse. he knew you were clearly sexually active and had sex with you now he regrets it? doesn't sit right.

why have sex with someone if you aren't serious about them? you are pregnant. now isn't the time to play the field lol you have to put your baby first.

Yeah.. I guess the whole love thing just wasn't for me. @lakilucid

I do put my baby first. My baby is fine while he's in my belly. I'm working every day to support me and him, but it has nothing to do with my sex life. @lakilucid

i say if hes acting that way break it off now isn't the time to play that game girl I actually agree with @lakilucid red flag

actually if he is cheating it could affect your baby. do you use protection?

no man is going to randomly change his mind about sex. especially with a pregnant woman that they can't get pregnant. if his morals were such a priority he wouldn't have slept with a pregnant woman to begin with. seems to me like he's wanting a way out and hiding something.. I would talk to him.

Yes we do @lakilucid

well that's good. at least you are protected but condoms can fail. I would get checked personally. not to mention risks of infection.

sit him down and talk to him. tell him how you feel.

They check my blood I don't have anything lol. I will girl. Maybe he's just nervous about me having a baby @lakilucid

@lakilucid, is right. condoms reduce the risk of stds but not 100% so its worth noting.

I would be nervous if my girlfriend were pregnant with another mans baby. always the chance of the dad showing back up.