ADVICE NEEDED!!!! When I met my husband he told me that he's a father to a little girl that he was lead on to believe…
ADVICE NEEDED!!!! When I met my husband he told me that he's a father to a little girl that he was lead on to believe was his daughter and he did a home DNA test to find out she wasn't but he stayed in her life, I accepted her as his daughter and opened my home and heart to her, once I came into the picture he stopped doing all the extra for the childs mom since he was in a serious relationship no more helping her with bills, or letting her borrow money, when we moved in together she told my husband if she found out he had her daughter at my house she was going to coach her to say I'm beating on her and have me arrested, which ultimately made me uncomfortable and during s heated argument the mom told my husband that she was using him for financial support and the child's biological dad has been in her life, so my husband stepped away from the situation, BUT his mom is still very involved in the childs life and keeps pressuring him to be back in her life, she makes the child call him, and when he goes to his moms house the child is there, she's 6 I feel her mom should have had a conversation with her child to try to explain this mess she made, is my husband wrong for walking away? Does his mom need to mind her business?
missing268user·
his mom needs to mind her own business that's not his child and the mom of the little girl got what she deserves for being a mouthy bitch. but that's just my opinion girl i say the mom is wrong
Jes·
В ожидании первенца
No. The mom is using your husband for financial support. It's not even about her wanting him to have a father figure, and at the end of the day that's not the child's dad. He now has an actual child that he should put all of his focus on. They are not together. She needs to back up and quite frankly she should be checked.. I don't know how your man is doing this. He's a good one but don't let him be too good to another woman's child when he has his own family to deliver that love to.
missing328user·
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
Girl yes his mother had nothing to do with his HOME!! That crazy mother is putting pressure on you because you don't know WHAT she's capable of if she saying stuff like that. And any "mother" that would PURPOSELY confuse her child is a suck human being. How you the real father in the picture but USING your husband for financial gain? IM SORRY BOO BUT IF HIS MOTHER CARED SO MUCH WHY DONT SHE TAKE TAKE OF THE LITTLE GIRL?????
Nesha·
Мама троих детей
@hiswife_theirmommy, she does take care of her and expects my husband to feed her and shit while she over there, she will call from her and phone and when he answers out the little girl on the phone, when he goes over his moms house the little girl is ALWAYS there, his mom blames me for him wanting to be in the little girl life which I honestly never told him that, but when her mom said she was going to coach the little girl into saying I physically abused her hell no the little girl was no longer welcomed in my house
Nesha·
Мама троих детей
@jesjeslovesyou, his mom needs to be her father since she feels the child needs one so bad
Nesha·
Мама троих детей
@hermommy, I feel like she won't love our baby because she obsessed with that little girl and blames me got him walking away
missing268user·
that's ridiculous and if she doesn't she's asking her son to be done with her that's still a child hell if that little girl isn't his it isn't his@mrshamilton830
Nesha·
Мама троих детей
it's so hard and confusing because I really do love the little girl and my kids love her too but I refuse to deal with BM drama from a slut that's not even his BM
missing328user·
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
😕who tries to pressure a grown man into taking care of a kid that's not even his!!!??? TF?!?? N I DONT BLAME U FOR NOT WANTING TO BE APART OF THAT TOMFOOLERY. SHES THREATENING YOUR COMFORTABILITY IN YOUR OWN DAMN HOME!!! Naw F that
Nesha·
Мама троих детей
@hiswife_theirmommy, since the child is ALWAYS at his moms house should he just avoid going over there? she still calls him daddy and it's going on 2 years since he walked away and she's 6
missing328user·
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
You are his wife, I mean that his mom, but obviously she's putting him AND you in a very uncomfortable situation. That's not his kid, I mean every child needs a father but obviously THAT kid has one. So😕 yea he should avoid that at all costs. Frfr