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Delana
Delana
Мама двоих (9 лет, 12 лет)

My child's father (the one I'm currently carrying) and I met through a mutual friend last January. He lived 12hrs from…

My child's father (the one I'm currently carrying) and I met through a mutual friend last January. He lived 12hrs from me but when we first met we were smitten! We got to know each other through text messages and phone calls an after 4 months of that we finally met face to face! Instantly we were in LOVE! We knew we were going to get married, talked about it constantly! After 2 months of not seeing each other I was getting lonely and we couldn't afford to see each other again. I was a single mom of 2 and he was a single dad of 1. We decided to be friends but still kept in contact. We ended up seeing other people but after about 3 months of that he came here to visit and my feelings never left but I ended up putting my focus on him and only him even though he was only here for 2 weeks it was the best 2 weeks of my life. After he left I made a decision that I couldn't just leave my town my family my good job just yet. Then the unthinkable happen. I found out I was pregnant. He was super excited and made the choice of moving him and his son into my home. Unfortunately things didn't work out as plan. We couldn't get along for 2 weeks!! I wasn't the happiest I was pregnant because I was 32 pregnant with my 3rd child my a 3rd man that I wasn't married to. My other children's father takes care of them financially but that's it. I didn't want another child who's father only comes around when it was con isn't. But he ended up moving back and started a relationship again with an ex but it didn't last long and even though we still kept in touch I was upset with him for that. I still hold a grudge but remained cool just because he wanted to be around when the baby is born. We schedule an appt for the 8th of February so we can find out TOGETHER what we are having but I haven't heard or even got a response from him in 2 weeks. So devastated right now but am not going to push him into something he doesn't want. So confused right now just needed to vent! He went from Prince Charming to nothing at all! I really thought I was going to live my happily ever after...,

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missing173user

missing173user

Мама сына (6 лет)

@jerseybecca

missing173user

missing173user

Мама сына (6 лет)

My fiancé is like that now too like we are not in love anymore... 😭😭😭😭

occdancer83

Delana

Мама двоих (9 лет, 12 лет)

Thank you! I hope so too! @jerseybecca

jerseybecca

Rebecca

Мама дочки (5 лет)

I hope everything works out. My daughter's father and I were closer friend before we got together. When I got pregnant he immediately changed. Now I don't even know what city he is in. Im just telling you so you don't feel alone and don't let it get you down.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.