This may sound crazy but can you bann your babys father from coming to the hospital. Firstly I want my daughter to interact and see her father but he threatens he's going to take the papers and give her the name he wants, and that he will take me to court and this and that. She can see him I just don't want him near me during delivery or the signing of any documents.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
if i don't want to give my baby the fathers last name, can he take me to court to change that?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you aren’t the one that has to pick up all these toys. You aren’t the one who has to put them back. He never picks up toys. Everyone wants to get the toys out for her out no one ever wants to help me pick them back up. The fact that I said not to let her get anything out of the box more than 5 times really pisses me off. You may be her grandparent but you aren’t her parent. So now I have mass toys to pic up on top of the toys she already had out from this morning
I am so stressed right now!!! My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me. I feel like I should not see any at this point.
twinmamma2015·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yes you can! especially if your not married! my boys dad wasn't there and didn't know where or when I had the boys.
Camie·
Мама дочки-младенца
Yes, anybody you say that you don't want, they won't let back.
missing145user·
Yup, anyone you say you don't want to be there they will make leave.
mommybump2016·
correct you can tell them who you want in the room just let your nurses know . also if you don't want him on the birth certificate you don't have to put him on there (but he can go to court) and someone is in the room when your signing the papers to go over them with you. just let them know also if he trys to put what name he wants he can't , its all up to you honestly
Camryn's Mommy·
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@mommybump2016, if he was to take me to court to get on the birth certificate about how long will the process take?
mommybump2016·
he could go through child support to do it actually witch suxks. but from the time he files I say about a month . but if he does it that way he has to pay child support. once the judge says you have to change the name you have like 90days to do so. when I had to change my daughters last name I had to pay to do it also 😑
Camryn's Mommy·
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Wow so because it's his baby he can enforce a name change how is that so??? Omg that's terrible @mommybump2016
TaiTyana·
Мама двоих (2 года, 46 лет)
what state do you live in
Camryn's Mommy·
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@taityanamill, Michigan
TaiTyana·
Мама двоих (2 года, 46 лет)
then that is not correct Michigan is the Mommie state I just went through that with my first child anything that you say go if you don't want him at the hospital he does not have to be at the hospital if you don't want your baby to have his name he just not have to have his name they will not in force anything on you that you do not want @lynnx1800
Camryn's Mommy·
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@taityanamill, Okay omg. Good thank you because that just pushed me way back I'm trying to figure things out and already be prepared do you have full custody?
Dana·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
if ur not married they will not put him on birth certificate unless you both agree he's the father. and sign the voluntary paternity form... otherwise I'd say Dont even bring his name up.. until he takes you to court!!!
TaiTyana·
Мама двоих (2 года, 46 лет)
yes I do I have full custody of my daughter he has no right to paternity with her @lynnx1800
Camryn's Mommy·
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Ok that may just be what I do, I really don't want to be too stressed dealing with him, but then again I don't want to be selfish. @drodrigo239
Camryn's Mommy·
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@taityanamill, how did you gain full custody? Did you have to prove anything?
mommybump2016·
maybe I'm wrong since you live in a different state but in Texas I was forced to give my daughter her father's last name since he went through child support. its the judges rules since the judge had so many kids come to him saying they wanted their dads last name he made it that way , they said I could hyphen it but that would've made her name wayy to long so I didn't. but the hospital will not force you to put him on the birth certificate or make the baby have his last name.
Dana·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
yea, but by the hospital he has no say, about being there your not married it's not his choice it's yours...
TaiTyana·
Мама двоих (2 года, 46 лет)
you automatically have full custody because you're not married to him @lynnx1800
marissa·
Мама подростка
@taityanamill that's not true. my sister wasn't married to her baby daddy, and they got 50/50. you have full legal custody untill he is proven to be the father.
TaiTyana·
Мама двоих (2 года, 46 лет)
No.. because even if he is the father you still get to say if you want him to have rights or not.. @marissacc22
marissa·
Мама подростка
not how it works up here. you have to have valid reason. like abuse neglect.. you can't just say I don't like my babies dad so he can't be apart of its life.. that's wrong.. and that's not how courts work