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I don't really know how to feel About this...so my fiancé asked me awhile ago if he could message his ex and apologize…

I don't really know how to feel

About this...so my fiancé asked me awhile ago if he could message his ex and apologize for something in their past that was really bothering him. He handled a situation wrong and understands it better now because I went through something similar that she did. I told him that it was fine, just to let me know if he decided to do it. Well, I was laying in bed with him and he was on Facebook and I saw he had messaged her and didn't tell me. So I asked him about it. He said oh yeah I messaged her right before Christmas and just forgot..usually when something like that happens he'll show me the messages, but he didn't. That's all he said about it. So it's been driving me crazy and I decided to go read it today.. And he was telling her he's sorry and that she was his first love and he wishes he could have gone back to change what he did ( this incident caused their break up) and that they should have dealt with it together...then she said well thank you, I appreciate it we were young and dumb. She said he was happy he found me who makes him happy and had a beautiful baby girl and he completely ignored what was said about me and said "hehe aww thanks, I love being a daddy so much, she's crazy" and went on again to apologize...I'm kinda hurt and don't really know what to do...

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firstbaby_girl

Jenna

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It's your relationship, you have every right to know what's going on no matter what especially if you are to be married.

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missing328user

missing328user

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I agree with @mango44

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b3autifulm3ss

Michelle

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@ashbabash18, you need to tell him how you feel and deal with this head on and asap

I've been through something similar and I had to just tell him how I felt. i also ask him how he really felt and it hurt what he said but we got past it.

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