I need a straight up honest answer. I don't need some bs like you don't deserve that or you need to leave. Because let's…

it's all about how much bs you want to deal with. you could try marriage counseling. but if he is being like this in your pregnant then him changing is doubtful. father of your child or not you deserve better.

I'd leave. My parents stayed together for years trying to make it work for my sister and I and they really just did more damage, so much damage. Because of that, I swore I would never stay with someone for a child or with someone I wasn't completely happy with. I deserve to be as happy as possible and my happiness has an effect on my child. Good luck to you with whatever you decide!

@soldiersgirl0315, wow that's not good and he should understand that that's serious

@countrymama166, for the past two weeks I've been on strict bed rest because I started going into labor again

@soldiersgirl0315, wow he is ridiculous like that is so disrespectful your pregnant and tired and had to be on bed rest so what does he expect I'm so sorry you had to deal with that

The terrible thing is if he cheated once and you found this app it's likely he's cheating again. I dated one cheater. he apologized begged for forgiveness and cheated multiple more times before he finally left me for one of the girls he cheated on me. that taught me not to put up with that shit.. I know how hard it is when you love someone soo much :'( but you need to confront him about and think about what you need and if this is okay with you. because there is a chance it will happen again.

@countrymama166, one of the earlier comments is what he had to say when I said something.

@soldiersgirl0315, okay I didn't see what you posted under that fuck him I would have slapped him across the face packed all my shit and tell him he doesn't deserve you ... I'm sorry but what a douchebag

@soldiersgirl0315, I would confront him calmly and see what he has to say and then go from there my ex husband did that when I was pregnant because he was scared and couldn't handle it so I confronted him and we talked it out at the time , but I would deff ask him why that app is on his phone considering it's a dating app and his with you with a baby on the way , I'm sorry keep your head up girl

@soldiersgirl0315, I am so sorry:( he needs to realize pregnancy isn't easy. I hate to say it, I was married to an infantryman in the at army, he did the same thing to me we were young though I'm so sorry I really hope he realises he is wrong stay strong girl

if he wanna commit adultery and cheat on you while you're pregnant I'm sorry to tell you and I know this isn't what you wanna hear but you should walk away. Cause love is conditionless not like that and the fact that he would just say that to you shows he don't give a damn

Put him out! And move on. I found out my husband was cheating on me through his text messages. I confronted that Ass soon as he walked through the door. Threw all his stuff out and kept him out even when I found out I was pregnant with our 4th. I will not tolerate disrespect on any level. And if you feel you can do better by cheating then buddy you gots to go. It took a while and counseling and all that before he even understood. We are now trying to see what is going to happen but I out my foot down and baby girl I meant it and stuck to it. You have to demand what you know you deserve period. There will be days when you feel like skip it I'll just deal with it but just make sure that's what you truly want. If you want to message me we can talk. But don't take no BD from nobody idc how the cards are laid out. And let me tell you I'm a stay at home mom so when I put him out I didn't have a dime and he paid all the bills and everything but I could've cared less.

oh hell naw 🔫🔫🔫🔫 leave him thats just disrespectful and inconsiderate smh hes not a real man @soldiersgirl0315

I would've smacked him and then given him good ass head then walked away from him and been like what you wanna eat? I'm bouta cook for your bitch ass ahahahah

@ainsleighsmommy, @babymadelyngrace @babykellersmommy @hermommy @perhsice @shawtypop

I did. He says its because I'm not a good wife because I haven't cleaned the house and cooked like I'm supposed to everyday. And because I don't have a job any more and he has to work for all the money. And maybe he'll end up finding some good sex. Well for one, for the past 2 months I've been on bed rest. And they took me out of work, otherwise I was putting my child at risk for miscarriage. And like, I'm so sorry that I don't want to have sex every day. I'm huge. I hurt 24/7. I don't feel that great. But he doesn't care about how I feel. I'm pretty sure he wouldn't feel that great if I started adding guys on FB or started looking at other guys. I wouldn't because I actually love him. And I think when people are married it should just be those two people. Not them and someone else.

The sucky thing is you're right, you aren't going to walk away and leave until you are ready to. My ex that I was with for 7 years and had a child with cheated on me numerous times, caught him on dating apps, texting other girls, Facebook, everything. Once you're done you're done. The last straw for me was he went out met a girl at the bar and started seeing her, me being one to try to fix things still tried to fight and keep the relationship telling him if he stopped seeing her if forgive him. Eventually after him being shady for 2 weeks I had enough and left. Best decision I ever made! One thing I've learned is once a cheater always a cheater I don't care what anyone says. So when you're ready you'll leave but until then no matter what anyone says you'll probably stay and keep forgiving him. You do deserve better though!

I didn't look for it. He told me to play YouTube, and I clicked the wrong thing and his tinder app came up. Apparently it's been there for 5 months. @ainsleighsmommy @shawtypop

Confront him or it will keep eating at you.

nahh the men do it just as much if not more. so many people in the military cheat on their spouse and it makes other people who are faithful the odd ones out there for they end up doing it too.

Oh well . Personally I don't go looking for stuff because if I find something I'll be mad . I feel like it's just an app if he's not trying to meet up or any of that then okay .

I'm a army wife. Usually you see the women doing it. But nope, it's the man. @shawtypop

See that's the thing, he's cheated before and I forgave him. We fixed things. This is two years later. The only thing different now is I'm pregnant. And sex has gone down and I've gained weight. Yeah that's no excuse, but guys like to look.

and I'm a navy wife

👀👀 ohhh

this isn't the right thing to say but I would break his phone and beat the shit outta him. but I'm a latina I don't play that shit, but honestly there's nothing you can do really. if a man is going to cheat hes going to cheat. that's that

@perhsice, a dating app

whats tinder?

just confront him girl, don't be irrational just ask him what's going on, you honestly don't deserve to be cheated on but maybe there are steps y'all can take to fix things:)@soldiersgirl0315