I need some advice my babies father gets really mad when he drinks liquor. He woke me up and started a big argument about the thermostat he completely destroyed the room and choked me this is the 2nd time he has done this. I'm going to church today and I'm not sure of what to do when he starts calling and texting to talk to me because he realized he messed up. I need some advice and solutions to help the problem.
Комментарии
I live in jersey so I don't know what's available by you but I promise there is a way. do not give up and act fast. most of the times the abuse gets worse each time
thanks that was a lot of helpful information I've been looking for a place that would help me @pinupmama
there is alot of program out there to help women in domestic abuse situations. no matter how much you love him. he could kill you. he could have killed your daughter. don't you dare think you are safe if he is sober. there are churches and government agencies that will help give you first and last month's rent to get a place. just go to a police station and talk to an officer. they will help you figure out a get away plan
I'm sorry to hear that @ladiiv . I hope you can figure it out . And wish you the best . Don't let it drive you crazy , you have a little one in you to think about as well . ❤️
its time he has had more than enough chances he can't keep his hands off me I love him but I gotta love him from a distance and we stay together so its a lot i got to do @ms.jones
we women are worth very very much beyond,last year my brother threw me down and dragged me across my mom's kitchen on a head lock,I scratched the crap out of his eye and chest,as soon as he let go,I called 911....not one man will lay a hand on me unless I allow it,I can careless if it was my brother,he got arrested right there and then,he tried to blame me that it was me who attacked but police weren't stupid they saw it as an act of self defense.....(this was all because he could not handle a tiny argument and kept telling me to keep my mouth shut or he'll hit me,of course I couldn't keep shut what he was saying was insulting,and had closed his bedroom door on my daughter) you can leave if you choose to! and let me tell you my mom was so pissed at me when he was locked up,I remember telling her no man will treat me such whoever it is, (my mom let her husband sexually molest me and by that I mean she asked and I told her and she didn't do anything about it,I was about 4ish,5)I thought I was alone it was the world against me,I also got her husband to court for a restraining order because the Xmas of 2013 he tried to force his face into mine) sorry I told more then I should,but I hope you do what is right,you won't have regrets,WOMEN POWER
Leave him. Go to a friend or family member you trust. Or look online for places to go. I've had to do it before. it's scary but you will be much better off in the end
I won't say leave because if it was that simple then you wouldn't be posting . (I'm assuming) you need to have a serious conversation with him about putting his hands on you and about his drinking . Your about to be a mother so what's going on with him is bigger than just yourself . That has to be scary , but make sure you give him some time to sober up before speaking to him . Sometimes it's easier by text to get out how your feeling without being nervous . If it still doesn't change you know it's time to put on your walking shoes . Because if you don't put your foot down now , it will keep happening . Trust me I know .
I'm just so scared I need some older people to talk to I honestly Dont have anyone else not even my own mother or father
and i went thru the same so if u want call me just message me and ill give u my digits i feel so bad u shouldnt deal with that
just leave call the cops tell them what he did. And how it isn't the first time. they will arrest him that will give you enough time to pack just the necessities then get out of there and go to a friends or a parent(if your sure they won't let him in) do you really want to take the risk of him further hurting you or hurting your unborn daughter? if you know he will put his hands on you if you try to leave then call the cops first so hes gone.
leave his ass.my husband did the same thing to me over and over...and I finally had enough I had him arrested and he hasn't touched me since .
LEAVE NOW! My oldest son's father fought me when I was 8 months pregnant with him. I was kicked in the back and stomach. It's not safe leave now honey.
I have been in a relationship like this sweetheart and I promise it only gets worse took me three years and almost dying to finally leave I had my cousin come get me with 2 guys in case he tried something again but I never told anyone where I was so he couldn't find me only personal family I was 19. Hardest decision I ever had to make but I did and believe me I when I say I wouldn't be alive today if I would have stayed. If you need to talk I'm here!
I am 2 times is enough for me I tried to make it work but its only so much I can take so yeah you guys just put it in my head I need to leave him
thank you so much its just so hard I gotta just get out when he's gone it's the only way
call the cops right now do not hesitate. it really is not worth your life or your baby's life
Domestic Violence Hotline 1800-799-SAFE And They Will Protect You In A Safe House And All...Please Stop With The Excuses For Him Baby Because You Are About The Same Age As My Daughter And If You Was My Daughter I Would've Been Blown His Head Off With My Gun...One Thing I Hate Is Violence Against Woman And Children!
leave and do it when he's not there or call the cops
it's not going to get better. and I'M telling you this from experience.... one night after our baby was born he was so mad since I wouldn't let him drive my car because he was drunk. he ended up punching me in the face and slapping me over and over. got a fat black eye. he just wouldn't stop. scariest thing ever. I moved out after that. because if he can do all that while our daughter is in the house he can't be trusted.... for SHIT! we'd have little arguments before with small physical contact and I thought it would get better... but yea it's hard hun but ppl like that need real professional help
yea that's the only thing I can honestly think of doing but sometimes when I try to leave he won't let me leave and when I try he chokes me and pushes me up against the wall and it's scary cause all I try to do is protect my baby girl
Wake Up Babygirl This Is Domestic Violence Stop It Or One Day It Will Be Your Last... Make No Excuses For That Little Boy Because A Real Man Doesn't Put His Hands On His Woman!
Leave! Only one bad night of drinking and it could be your child he's shaking or choking when he gets mad. He needs to be in treatment pronto.
leave his ass behind... if he ever does it again call the cops and file a report... your baby doesn't need to everyone around that.. what if once the baby is born he decided to take it out on the baby instead of you.. it's not worth it.. leave him in the dust
@ladiiv, would you want some1 to do that to your lil girl (If Not) Then don't accept anything from any1 that you wouldn't want for baby girl cuz now it's about your child & 9/10 the abuse gets worst if you don't put your foot down