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it's really hard with me and my SO right now. while I was pregnant my boyfriend developed a drug problem, wasn't really…

it's really hard with me and my SO right now. while I was pregnant my boyfriend developed a drug problem, wasn't really there for me when I was having complications from 28 weeks to 34 weeks when I gave birth. hasn't really been there for our daughter since I gave birth 3 month's ago. well a week ago he decided that going back to the Philippine's for 6 months to get clean and change his life around so that he can finally be a good Daddy.. we video chat everyday but it's still hard. I've stuck by his side through so much bs...I've felt like a single mommy for awhile now. I want us to be a little family, I want Anika to have a mommy and a daddy. I just feel like he is gonna miss out on so much and by the Time he gets back what if it's to little to late? I am glad he is getting clean and wanting to do better, but I am angry he had to go so far away and not be in his daughters life. he is out relaxing while I am at home being depressed. trying to stay strong for my little princess. any advice?

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missing406user

missing406user

It's never too late. Anika will be so excited to have her daddy in her life. If he is truly there, working on himself and getting clean, then that's what is best before he's in your daughters life anyway. You have to love take care of yourself first in order to be able to take care of others. Praying for him in his recovery and for you to stay strong during this time!

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anikasmommy2015

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thank you very much. you are so right. I am scared once he gets back to the states he will relapse. but I need to have faith and stay strong and hope that he stay's clean for our little girl. she needs her Daddy😊

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