I always said if I ever had a baby, I would be with the father of my child... but Now my situation is so much different I don't talk to my baby father nor does he check to see the progress with the baby!! it's super sad to know in 4 weeks or less I will be what I NEVER wanted to be a single mom. I know it's nothing major to mom's who been there and done it.. I just wish he understood how much of a grudge I'm holding toward him for walking out on his son .. I don't see things getting any better.. Nor will I reach out to him..
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thanks boo and I will definitely inbox u @shenellw29 you don't know how much your words mean to me
girl I vent all the time up here it's kool n its ok to cry sometimes... I think he's gonna come back around eventually to u...but jus protect ya feelins cuz when guys doing them sum jus only care about themselves hunni I don't think nobody has cried more than me lol but it ok boo u n that baby gon b jus fine you'll c...I'm making myself believe this also we gon b good... we have no choice cuz we damn sure can't make them c or do rite...I promise u this app will help its always someone here 24/7 to talk to n u can always inbox me 😉 cheer up babe we gon b good👍💪💯💕@niqua541
@mommybug, thank u for the advice and I will continue pushing foward :)
yes ! I find myself crying a lot more now that it's getting closer. & I know I have to woman up and be strong for my son.. u right they change up and jus two months ago he was around now he not. and he has two other kids who are older.. that he is active in there life but for me it's a different story I wasted 3 years on this and I don't regret my baby one bit. I jus regret believing in me and him... and yeah u are speaking nothing but the truth and I thank you so much I jus been needing somebody to vent to :/ @shenellw29
and you're not suppose to reach out to him...he'll realize his mistake but don't.... let him reach out to u he's the one who walked out!!! @niqua541
its not your fault the father cannot own up.. no woman plans to be a single parent.. so all I can suggest to you is do it on your own no matter how hard it turns out.. your child will always appreciate YOU and what you've done.. my mother was a single parent to my older siblings until my dad came around.. and for personal reasons my father had to leave us(hes back now) she was a single mother to 4 children.. it is somethinng doable.. and i promise as lonng as you continue to provide.. it will be appreciated.. keep your head up.. it will turn out in your favor.. 💙💙💙
u r very rite n yess hun I've cried plenty of night then and now ...I'm much older n way more stable now I but I jus wanted that father figure around for both of my boys...but guys change up so much its crazy the baby I'm prego with now me n his dad was together for 4 yrs up until 3 months ago...he don't check on me or nun like I'm nothing to him this app n family have truly help/helping me thru... all we can do is trust God n kno that it all happens for a reason baby girl after these babies come we won't even have time to sit around n think about these lil boys who wanna b men @niqua541
@shenellw29, thanks by the way for the advice ;)
@shenellw29, it good to know I have someone who understands my pain. with your 11 year old was it nights u just broke down crying .. jus knowing you wanted better for him.. people say dont worry u can be mom and dad but I think there are things a man can teach his son/daughter that a mom cant... I truly am putting my trust in God and knowing he will guide me through this with faith it's just hurtful at the end of the day...
going thru the same thing and I have a 11 yr old son whom I have been a single mother too for 11yrs last thing I wanted was to raise another child on my own... it sucks but we jus gotta keep pushing but I definitely feel ur pain I'm going thru now...jus trust God... easier said than dun but I hope u feel better... @niqua541
@niqua541, np anytime 😊