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I always said if I ever had a baby, I would be with the father of my child... but Now my situation is so much different…

I always said if I ever had a baby, I would be with the father of my child... but Now my situation is so much different I don't talk to my baby father nor does he check to see the progress with the baby!! it's super sad to know in 4 weeks or less I will be what I NEVER wanted to be a single mom. I know it's nothing major to mom's who been there and done it.. I just wish he understood how much of a grudge I'm holding toward him for walking out on his son .. I don't see things getting any better.. Nor will I reach out to him..

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shenellw29

DavandaМама подростка

@niqua541, np anytime 😊

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shaniquatipton

shaniquaВ ожидании первенца

thanks boo and I will definitely inbox u @shenellw29 you don't know how much your words mean to me

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shenellw29

DavandaМама подростка

girl I vent all the time up here it's kool n its ok to cry sometimes... I think he's gonna come back around eventually to u...but jus protect ya feelins cuz when guys doing them sum jus only care about themselves hunni I don't think nobody has cried more than me lol but it ok boo u n that baby gon b jus fine you'll c...I'm making myself believe this also we gon b good... we have no choice cuz we damn sure can't make them c or do rite...I promise u this app will help its always someone here 24/7 to talk to n u can always inbox me 😉 cheer up babe we gon b good👍💪💯💕@niqua541

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shaniquatipton

shaniquaВ ожидании первенца

@mommybug, thank u for the advice and I will continue pushing foward :)

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shaniquatipton

shaniquaВ ожидании первенца

yes ! I find myself crying a lot more now that it's getting closer. & I know I have to woman up and be strong for my son.. u right they change up and jus two months ago he was around now he not. and he has two other kids who are older.. that he is active in there life but for me it's a different story I wasted 3 years on this and I don't regret my baby one bit. I jus regret believing in me and him... and yeah u are speaking nothing but the truth and I thank you so much I jus been needing somebody to vent to :/ @shenellw29

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shenellw29

DavandaМама подростка

NP hun bun👍💯😉@niqua541

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shenellw29

DavandaМама подростка

and you're not suppose to reach out to him...he'll realize his mistake but don't.... let him reach out to u he's the one who walked out!!! @niqua541

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mommybug

AshleyМама дочки (3 года), беременна (23 нед.)

its not your fault the father cannot own up.. no woman plans to be a single parent.. so all I can suggest to you is do it on your own no matter how hard it turns out.. your child will always appreciate YOU and what you've done.. my mother was a single parent to my older siblings until my dad came around.. and for personal reasons my father had to leave us(hes back now) she was a single mother to 4 children.. it is somethinng doable.. and i promise as lonng as you continue to provide.. it will be appreciated.. keep your head up.. it will turn out in your favor.. 💙💙💙

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shenellw29

DavandaМама подростка

u r very rite n yess hun I've cried plenty of night then and now ...I'm much older n way more stable now I but I jus wanted that father figure around for both of my boys...but guys change up so much its crazy the baby I'm prego with now me n his dad was together for 4 yrs up until 3 months ago...he don't check on me or nun like I'm nothing to him this app n family have truly help/helping me thru... all we can do is trust God n kno that it all happens for a reason baby girl after these babies come we won't even have time to sit around n think about these lil boys who wanna b men @niqua541

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shaniquatipton

shaniquaВ ожидании первенца

@shenellw29, thanks by the way for the advice ;)

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shaniquatipton

shaniquaВ ожидании первенца

@shenellw29, it good to know I have someone who understands my pain. with your 11 year old was it nights u just broke down crying .. jus knowing you wanted better for him.. people say dont worry u can be mom and dad but I think there are things a man can teach his son/daughter that a mom cant... I truly am putting my trust in God and knowing he will guide me through this with faith it's just hurtful at the end of the day...

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shenellw29

DavandaМама подростка

going thru the same thing and I have a 11 yr old son whom I have been a single mother too for 11yrs last thing I wanted was to raise another child on my own... it sucks but we jus gotta keep pushing but I definitely feel ur pain I'm going thru now...jus trust God... easier said than dun but I hope u feel better... @niqua541

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supermommy016

Ty Grant

Same..

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

my boyfriend left his phone in my car yesterday, so yeah I went through it...he don't have a lock code on it...however I…

my boyfriend left his phone in my car yesterday, so yeah I went through it...he don't have a lock code on it...however I checked his fb messenger and he has been flirting with other females...he says he never touched them that's far as it went...I wanna believe him because I love this man so much he the father of my child I wanted to one day marry him....I call myself breaking up with him, but I'm already missing him like crazy...I don't want no other man...should I suck it, and make him sweat a little and then give him another chance I know he loves me...I know men will be flirty, I can too. but not where it's noticeable, because it's like doing it in my face...granted he don't have lock code, I do but he knows it's his birthday...so not for you salty girls who are lonely and miserable....more of the women who been in my situation, or who is married...I need some advice please...I'm due in September and really want him there staying with me in late August in case he have to drive me....