I want to have a baby so bad and my boyfriend feels the same but says hes not financially ready...so does welfare have to be paid back?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.
??? My child is NOT disgusting just because he has HFMD. I feel beyond awful that he even has it, but now I feel like facking shat since my family makes it seems like he's so disgusting. I'm just gonna lay in bed and cry ??
Dena·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
Yep I get that...they can never stick to their word or they say I didn't say that!!
Maria·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
and they wonder why we're so upset @mommyof2boys248 ..last time he was literally kissing my ass for 2 hrs til I finally got over being mad
Dena·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
They always suck up lol
Jacqueline Luna·
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I completely understand how you feel my hubby was like that at first but his friends were no good at all @mjmommy
Maria·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
exactly @jayy2016 they only come around to criticize and talk shyt..grr hate it but I can't control who he's friends with
Jacqueline Luna·
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Yes I completely understand it got to the point where I know it's wrong for doing this but I told him to choose either his friends or me. And we'll all his family noticed how much he changed after he stopped hanging out with those dumbos @mjmommy
Maria·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
his friends are constantly "coming up" meaning they stealing stuff to sell and get money..last thing I need is this dummy gettin caught up with these lames while I'm at home worried and in pain @jayy2016
Jacqueline Luna·
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Exactly I know what you are going through some people just won't get it and when they do it's too late for them to try and take everything back @mjmommy
Maria·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
I'm afraid I won't be able to put up with much more @jayy2016 I dnt want to go thru this pregnancy alone but by the looks of it I'm better off😔
Jacqueline Luna·
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Yeah sometimes it's better to be alone then to be with some one and not have any help. The only thing that you will be getting is more problems. @mjmommy