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Ebony
Here I am 10 weeks pregnant with my 6th child and I feel alone. I haven't told anyone in my family because I know no one will be supportive. Everyone will just be judgmental and tell me what I am doing wrong. #alonemommy
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d3bkjazzjonimom

@baby6aryn, thnx and I will. I agree tht might be my reason for not rushing to tell anyone. I was married before and am 3 yrs divorced n single. I know one way or another I will get through it.

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d3bkjazzjonimom

@baby6aryn, thnx and I will. I agree tht might be my reason for not rushing to tell anyone. I was married before and am 3 yrs divorced n single. I know one way or another I will get through it.

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arynbaby6

I'm having my sixth baby too. I also have three daughters by my husband. Whom I love as if I birth. Making this baby 9! My kids are around your kids ages.15, 12 (twins) and 6 (twins) who will be 7 two weeks right after I have her. My family wasn't shocked at all when I got pregnant cause hey all knew I would have a child when I got married. But when I was pregnant with my last twins. I was so nervous. Even kinda embarrassed that I was about to have 5 kids. I just knew my family would shun me but surprisingly their reaction was quite the opposite. My mom, whom tried to force me into an abortion the first time. And call me all types of stupids and idiots when I got pregnant with my first set, was like, well God has something planned for you. You'll get through this too. I realized that most of the projection was me. I was disappointed in myself. I'm not saying this how you feel. But I know that was where my source of being afraid to tell people of my last pregnancy came from. If you need help, support, encouragement. I'm here. Message me. And yes we can also have play dates. Lol.

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d3bkjazzjonimom

I know y they would disapprove, just comes a point in a person's life all they need is for you not to be negative about their situation.

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butterflynycki

Your not alone. I'm pregnant with number 4 and my parents have basically disowned me over it. It's a horrible feeling. And it baffles me because my children are very well taken care of. I have two great careers. I just build my own house. And I don't ask them for anything, matter a fact they come to me for loans and advice. Not quite sure what I'm doing wrong in their eyes. I grew up with two brothers and two sisters so it's not like I was any only child. We just have to stick together on this app as far as supporting one another. Don't live your life for others. As long as you and your children are healthy and happy, forget everyone else's opinion.

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d3bkjazzjonimom

Awe tht would be awesome. I have teenagers. Youngest is actually gonna be 7 by the time the new baby comes. 14,13,10,9,6 but if u have any around tht age then we can definitely work something out.

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mommymel4

I'm pregnant with #4 , bring Ur 6kids over to play the more the marrier Lol I love having extra family...all my friends turn into family

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d3bkjazzjonimom

Some family members yes. My mother no, she is just pure evil. With every pregnancy even when I was married asked if I was keeping it. Just not in the mood to continue to feel like I have to explain or feel wrong for my choice.

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scurlock.mommy

That's what I thought, too! My family took it surprisingly well, though. There's no reason for them to get upset considering it's already happened. Even if they do get mad, once you get farther along or the baby is here everything will change! I suggest waiting until you get an ultrasound pic and showing them when you get it. It might help them take the news a little better.

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d3bkjazzjonimom

@brinleysmommy, thnx. Need all the support I can get.

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missing268user

we will be here for you:)@d3bkjazzmom I know how you feel my family wasn't supportive

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