so yesterday I found out that my fiance cheated on me. we have a 3 month old son. I feel like I should try to make it…

I made my mans life hell after he cheated I couldn't help it I went crazy and controlled every single aspect of his life. I felt so ashamed. But he dealt with it and he knew it was his fault. He stayed during the ugliest moments of my life.

Give it a chance if that's what you want. If he's willing to man up and deal with all the feelings your about to go through then maybe he's worth it. He is your babies father.

I've been with my fiancé for four years. After a year of being together and living together I found out he slept with my best friend in the whole world, three times. I was devastated and it took us years to fix it but I chose him and girl no on can tell you what's right except yourself. If I wouldn't have stayed with him I would have my little Joseph. I'm more in love then I've ever been and I know he would never do it again. Think about how old he is, how mature, was he intoxicated? Some people really do make mistakes. Unfortunately I got with my man when he was still a boy who wanted to party drink and take pills. But I waited until he grew into a man and honestly that whole experience helped him be a man. He grew up so much knowing he tore me apart.

if it happens once, it'll almost always happen again. women fool themselves all the time into thinking stuff magically gets better, and they just wake up and everyone's happy.... the thing about cheaters? yeah, they're sorry, sorry they got caught..... don't stay JUST for the baby, its like growing up in a house without love.

I agree with @mamazra i was two weeks away from having my daughter, was engaged with my husband at the time and been with him 3years before that and found pictures of some female that he saved and emailed them to himself, yea I was heart broken cause we had two children already and was about to welcome our 3rd child and the last thing I needed was finding out her cheated but it was my choice if I wanted to work it out or leave him and I had decided to stick it thru and work it out. And 6months later we had got married like how we had planned and yes he's a different man now and I fall more in love with him every single day. My youngest is 1 now and we will be married for a year come June.

to be honest and call me stupid but before my husband and I were married he cheated on me.. I was 2 months pregnant and had a decision to make. granted we weren't serious then. I gave him benefit of the doubt and worked through it for my son.. and now he's my husband and I've never been so in love... he's a different man. people make mistakes and people also change. do what your heart tells you. go with your gut

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That's the thing he's loved up now and when I told him I found out he was very apologetic amd says it would never happen again that it was a mistake. Idk if it's the jail talking or if he truly will change.

@ahardin0217, I do not agree... I cheated on my ex husband…. I would NEVER EVER EVER cheat on my husband now… @green_love only you know whats best for you and your lo. I may be stupid but everyone makes mistakes and you know if this was a mistake or in character for you BD. Good luck 💞

I'm married to my son's father. and I still left his ass, while I was pregnant. If they'll cheat once, I promise you they'll do it again.

ugh! I just gotta put my foot down and make it happen

But I feel it's harder to do so cuz we have a child together

Yea honestly if he was willing to cheat in the first place, he doesn't care as much as you do. I don't care what his excuses are, because there are no valid excuses. You can do better for you and your baby! Your son will be better off without such a selfish role model of a father anyway....sorry, I don't mean to be rude about him, my point is just that "keeping the family together" should never be your deciding factor, you should only be with someone for your own happiness! Your boy will always be happy with your love 💖 very sorry for your heartbreak sweetie 💔

I'd kick him out & never look back

I agree, once a cheater always a cheater

Thanks

I would let him go dear, sorry. You don't needa be with him for your son. You don't deserve that all at & he will more then likely do it again! You deserve better! Good luck momma!! :)