My neighbor (who smokes weed) is saying that she's going crazy because she hasn't smoked in 4 days. I point out to her that I quit cigarettes and quit smoking weed when I became pregnant and that was 4 months ago. She goes on to tell me "you know you can smoke right? You just have to take it easy on them." Yes I understand I still have a choice of whether to smoke or not, I'm a grown woman. But having already lost a child, I don't want to take the risk of A.) losing another one and B.) something going wrong. Yes I understand that some women get lucky and their children turned out fine. I gave up for my child and yeah some days I really want a cigarette or just one hit off a joint but I don't do it. And you want to complain to me how you can't last 4 days. Then she comes back with "well I live with Bill" (her boyfriend, that she cheats on anyway) well uhh no one told you to live with him and maybe if you didn't sit there and take all his shit he wouldn't drive you nuts. Good Lord.