My neighbor (who smokes weed) is saying that she's going crazy because she hasn't smoked in 4 days. I point out to her that I quit cigarettes and quit smoking weed when I became pregnant and that was 4 months ago. She goes on to tell me "you know you can smoke right? You just have to take it easy on them." Yes I understand I still have a choice of whether to smoke or not, I'm a grown woman. But having already lost a child, I don't want to take the risk of A.) losing another one and B.) something going wrong. Yes I understand that some women get lucky and their children turned out fine. I gave up for my child and yeah some days I really want a cigarette or just one hit off a joint but I don't do it. And you want to complain to me how you can't last 4 days. Then she comes back with "well I live with Bill" (her boyfriend, that she cheats on anyway) well uhh no one told you to live with him and maybe if you didn't sit there and take all his shit he wouldn't drive you nuts. Good Lord.
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@emma.rose, either way. long time smoker or not. doing what best applies to you is always the best.
@misskaecolletto, I smoked cigarettes and weed, and it sucked quitting and honestly some days I just want to light up a cigarette because I feel like one won't hurt but I would just feel guilty. Like I understand women not quitting because it's way too stressful or they've been smoking for a really long time but I had only smoked for like 4 years so it only took me like a week and a half
I should clarify that it's cigarettes for me, not weed. lol I still crave a joint but it's not worth that risk for me.
as someone who still smokes in her pregnancy but is very close to quitting, I completely agree and she needs to mind her own business. you're doing what you feel is best. so screw her for her input. I wish I could've quit. but with how much I smoked before finding out I was pregnant quitting off the back would've stressed me and my baby out. continue to do what you think is best @emma.rose ! it's your pregnancy, not hers. you go mama!
true @misskaecolletto