Mommas, PLEASE do not use the cry it out method. It is psychologically damaging, and if baby is crying, there's ALWAYS a…
Mommas, PLEASE do not use the cry it out method. It is psychologically damaging, and if baby is crying, there's ALWAYS a reason. Even if that reason is needing to be held, that's as good of a reason as being hungry or a poopy diaper. When you let your baby cry it out, you aren't teaching them to self soothe. You're teaching them that they can't trust you. That they're alone. That no one cares. They aren't ceasing their crying cause they're better...they gave up, and probably cried til their little throat hurt too much to cry anymore. I know it's tough, momma. I know sometimes it seems like there's no end in sight, and there's nothing you can do. But you can't give up. You just can't. Take a deep breath and try again.
Jess·Мама дочки-младенца
As small babies, yes, they cry for a reason and attending to them builds trust and a bond. But once they are nearing 1 year then the cry it out method isn't going to hurt them. By them they've learn how to manipulate. That's why they love the "I drop the toy, you pick it up" game. By then they want what they want so they cry and since they are too young to be told no and reasoned with then crying it out is what works. Otherwise they'll learn that if they cry they'll always get what they want
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