Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
What would you do? I feel so stupidly selfish if I choose to be induced because I want my boy to come when he is ready, but I am also feeling selfish stressing him out because everything going on and how stressed I am. So do I continue to stress him out or do I get induced and deal with this and let him be? Or will he be okay? I've been up all night contracting on and off but could it be from my nerves?
I know this sounds sooo fkedup but sometimes i wanna get into a bad accident so my husband sees exactly all the things i do ... and how wrong he is by saying i don’t do enough ( not in those words but the jist of it ) anyway .... i think this all the time . Maybe then he will think differently .
I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you aren’t the one that has to pick up all these toys. You aren’t the one who has to put them back. He never picks up toys. Everyone wants to get the toys out for her out no one ever wants to help me pick them back up. The fact that I said not to let her get anything out of the box more than 5 times really pisses me off. You may be her grandparent but you aren’t her parent. So now I have mass toys to pic up on top of the toys she already had out from this morning
Angela·
Мама сына-младенца
i ,personally, gave him the baby when he came in and told him hey im fixing to shower, cook, take a nap, etc. this is what you need to do blah blah blah. when im done ill get the baby. and then go do whatever i wanted or needed to do . and at night id make him get up at least the first time the baby woke up. he started doing it himself and now we take turns getting up with our son or whatever when he gets home. i understand he works and provides for us. i get that he is tired from work and wants to relax but i didnt make the baby myself and i wont take care of him by myself as long as his daddy is around we will share responsibility
Bianca·
Мама дочки-младенца
I do sometimes just tell him that I need to get stuff done too but it doesn't seem to get it. I will be in the middle of getting ready or showering and the she is crying and he's just like she's fine or whatever and then I end up having to get her. I just don't know how much longer I am going to deal with him just acting like its whatever. I try and get him up during the night and he just falls back to sleep like its no big deal. It's so frustrating
Angela·
Мама сына-младенца
he falls back asleep but thats why i wake him back up. sometimes i cannot fall back asleep til ik the baby is okay and since his daddy has a tendency to pass out easily i sometimes stay up. but my SO knows that ive got to have some rest too. this isnt his first baby though and the mother of his first child was the same way when they were still together. he knows we get bitchy without sleep and after dealing with the baby its twice as bad so plus i would cut him off in a heartbeat if i didnt get help and he doesnt want that lol
Cary💟🐰·
Мама дочки-младенца
Just pass the baby lol. My boyfriend got the clue when mommy has had enough it's daddy duty time even for 5 minutes, sometimes we just need to breathe, and besides the baby needs to feel his warmth and get used to him being around. ☺
Bianca·
Мама дочки-младенца
Thank you ladies 💕 I feel like I can't talk to anyone of my friends because they don't have kids and have no idea what I'm talking about
Jessica Singer·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (3 нед.)
my husband said since hes a very heavy sleeper that if i need some rest and jd cries than to do everything in my power to wake him up. my husband does nothing but sit on his butt while at work, and he barely spends an hour with our son and thats only if i tell him to
Angela·
Мама сына-младенца
@_isabellasmommy, i feel the same way non of my friends have babies so they have no clue though they absolutely adore my son and do what they can when around they dont know how the baby is 24/7 and only get the good side lol @mommabear96 my boyfriend is a heavy sleeper too and works on unloading rigs(driving a loader in a barge or pulling a lever at work lol) and sometimes i got to make him take the baby but others (when i want time with the baby) he wants him too and he does what he can to help though. but he gets so super irritable and we fight at night sometimes because well we both are cranky and cant stand the sight of each other sometimes. and id make him spend more than an hour with the baby but thats just me
Jessica Singer·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (3 нед.)
shads a marine and the only times hes really bad is on pt days that are once or twice a week and it sucks :/ i feel like he doesnt really like being around jd or that he doesnt want to be here unless hes drinking...
Angela·
Мама сына-младенца
@mommabear96, have you talked to him about it?
Jessica Singer·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (3 нед.)
numerous times