Having so many problems with my SO , Went to church and left my family in God's hands but I cant help but to think about it..seems like it wont ever get better and moved out Friday and we haven't spoke since. We have a son but I just miscarried on 12/22/15 and its hard to deal with so much at once. We had an argument because of him being tired and he didn't want anybody at our house when he got home but my cousin was here waiting on her husband to pick her and her kids up. He was okay at first then he got upset and told me as many hours he worked, he just wanted to eat, shower and go to bed. I understand him being tired but I cant just kick them out in the cold to wait on him. Then he started yelling at me and I got upset because I felt like he was belittling me. After so many words back and forth, I started hitting him and he got mad and said he was leaving. I just recently stopped working. I cook, clean, take care of our son and make sure our business is in order and he doesn't thing any of that matters. Then tells me that I don't love him I just love the things he can do for me. It seems like he is a totally different person, even though we go through problems I still love him and hope we can sort through differences to make our family work. I don't know if I should contact him or just let him be..Its been 3 days, he deleted his facebook account and I haven't tried to call or text him just because I don't want to make things worse..I'm just stuck!!! Any advice?
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Im just seeing this, sorry. But I did call him, only for the phone to ring until voicemail.. I didn't get a call back or anything so I guess he's still upset..@yayajahmama
I would call... u gave him a few days to get his emotions in line and the anger has subsided I'm sure. For your own clarity at least see where his head is at if its worth fighting for or moving forward.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
So over this feeling!
Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
@bree_mishel, thanks, I will