so I had posted awhile back about being super worried because I was 18 weeks and not feeling like any movement. I had an ultrasound last Tuesday found out were having another baby boy and everything is perfectly fine. We are both healthy. and now here I am at a little over 20wks and really feeling him moving around now. I cannot begin to explain the feeling I get its like feeling this all for the first time all over again. my first pregnancy was miserable was sick the ENTIRE pregnancy and delivered almost 2 months early and have been just as sick this time. I am just overly excited about everything all over again and I truly just couldn't feel more blessed. I have had a very terrible rough past as I have made some extremely bad choices and wound up somewhere I had never fathomed I'd be. recovering herein addict 3 years clean July 2016 makes 4. being a mother has just finally given me a purpose. looking into my son's eyes just makes me realize how much more I never want to go back to that nasty negative place ever again. I feel like I was rewarded for staying true to my word with God and here we are again after.thinking I wasn't going to get pregnant ever again due to cervical cancer here I am 20 weeks a long and things are going pretty good. ugh I'm so happy at this point in my life and I've never been able to actually say that and really mean it. We've got struggles and financially things are completely messed up and terrible but we're pushing through and I know deep down that things will work themselves out but until then I've got so much to be thankful for right now here in this moment that things will get better in time.!!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.

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Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...