i feel kinda ashamed that i got pregnant 5 months b4 my wedding =( ... was supposed to be abstaining and we slipped…

God allowed this to happen, and if He did this, He has a purpose. It might be a little hard, but God only let us carry as much as He knows we can handle. You didn't fail your child, you are a child of God, but still a woman who fell into temptation, and God still blessed you both! May this baby bring a lot of joy to your family, in the name of Jesus! Tradition is nice, but Jesus taught us not to judge, but to love, and this is what your entire family and church should remember.

@callumsmommy were not going completely publiv until after the wedding ..like fokks cannot do math lol. fiancee think ppl are going to believe we have a 7 lb preemie lol

@jazzy_kruger i do love him/her =)

@lilfree16, you deserve everything just as if you wherent pregnant or a suggestion maybe ask for people to gift you baby stuff for your wedding unless you really need all the random gifts you get at weddings haha

like @aphrodite2014 me and my fiance won't get married until after the baby due to other issues @lilfree16

you deserve everything girl, there's always people that judge but you will be a great mom and still deserve to enjoy this pregnancy@lilfree16

awwe @aphrodite2014 congrats. . i was just feeling a little down like i didn't deserve a baby shower @callumsmommy

but we had that date set from almost the very beginning of our relationship

@lilfree16, I highly doubt it unless your family is just that traditional.. but at 6 months I'm barley showing.. I plan to get married about 4 months after my baby is born..

girl dont! y'all are getting married that's all that mattered, my granny got pregnant with my oldest uncle before she was married and back then that was a big deal, everything was fine, they moved up their date, but you are most definitely not a failure, God wouldn't do that if it was that wrong <3 @lilfree16

don't feel that way. and don't out yourself down over it. it happens. my daughter was far from planned and we are yet to get married. you're not a bad person or mother over it and either way you'll love your children 💚

@aphrodite2014 @callumsmommy yeah..its just like im scared people are going to be so judgey lol i dont even want to show up to my reception.. =/

@jazzy_kruger i feel like I should have waited and not give into temptation ..

don't feel like that

no mam don't feel that way! God blessed you early!!:)@lilfree16

it was in God's plan I'd say.... even though we all know it only takes once but to be honest we all know when we want it it takes longer. he wouldn't have put this child in your life if he didn't think it was the right time or you couldn't handel it

why do you feel like you failed your kid? you definitely aren't failing them at all.