It's hard being young and pregnant . I'm 17 and a high school senior I graduate this year . I'm 9weeks and already showing , people stare at me and I'm sure they say things too . Peers and adults like damn why don't you worry about your life instead of mine? I'm on track to graduate , I have everything planned out for my future after graduation . I am with my baby's father and our relationship is still going good and strong . I don't understand why I'm so frowned upon? Any young moms on here? Anyone been through this? I hate this feeling of being rejected and treated like societies dirt ..

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mommytobe03.31
Analucia·Мама дочки (9 лет)

I'm 16 ! 28 weeks not with my baby's father& truly don't give a shit about what people have to say ! I'm still going to school & ain't going to give up ! So girl you have it all don't be stressing !

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emmasmommy16
Elisa Gonzalez·Мама дочки (9 лет)

i'm 16 & 32 weeks now . i get nasty looks also . since my boyfriend announced it , people started saying tht i was just faking it . saying i was using someone else's ultrasound pictures . months pass & i still wouldnt show so much like other mommies , so they said i was gaining weight & it wasnt the pregnancy . tht i had a beer belly & i was just using the baby as an excuse . now tht i show a lot , people still say things & say tht im faking it & tht im not really pregnant . till this very day you should not worry what others say ! man , enjoy your pregnancy with your boyfriend . all tht matters is you & your soon to be family . let everyone talk & talk about you . soon they'll come around either when you are showing a lot more or when you had your baby already because everybody " wants to help & meet her / him " its you , your baby & yout boyfriend against the world hun .👊 head up . dnt let them ruin a blessing . enjoy it . dnt stress about it or be sad . remember what you feel , your baby feels .

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cast_16

@amandalynnmarie, I feel you I am also 17 & 28 weeks pregnant, I found out a week before school started & I was really sad because I won't be able to participate in my senior activities but that's ok. I am going to do home studies because of my back problems I can't walk a lot, but a lot of people gave me dirty looks at school & honestly you shouldn't care about those people. They're not doing anything for you or your child so their opinion shouldn't matter

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lovingmylittles0305
Kayla Rae·Мама дочки (12 лет)

15 when I had my oldest and am now 18 and 20 weeks with another girl. might graduate early 😉

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betty123
Beatriz·Мама дочки (9 лет)

either way you won't be there much longer and you focus on you and your family

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betty123
Beatriz·Мама дочки (9 лет)

my sister has told me about her experience being pregnant as a senior and it is mean how people are but she's doing a lot better than most of those people and is still with her husband

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mina418
Jazmin·Мама сына (11 лет)

I was 18 and a senior wen I had my son and ppl talked shit and wanted to fight me and started a lot of drama so I took home studies from my school and went back for graduation cuz I didn't need that type of stress for my baby so maybe you should think about doing home studies if your worried I mainly did it cuz I had back problems and had to be on bed rest

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little.momma.destiny.m
Destiny Mendez·Мама сына (9 лет)

I'm 17 and a senior. 30 Weeks And baby is due before graduation. I get the same nasty looks and stares and comments. But I walk with my head held high because you know what f*** what they say and what anybody else says for that matter. They have no right to be judging or criticizing anyone especially us young mothers. They stare I stare back, they make comments hey so do I. I don't try to start any problems but I'll be damned if I let anyone disrespect me because I'm pregnant. I would say things will get better but unfortunately the way society is young, un married, mothers will forever be frowned and looked down upon. We just need to keep our head up😏

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mommytojosiah

congrats I'm still in high school as well I'm still not showing.i just found out I was prego when we came out for Christmas break . I know I'll be going trough the same thing but F what people think regardless they are gonna talk . just do you I know you'll be perfectly fine 😋 your almost out your probably doing more than these other girls and aren't even prego . head up high mama & if you start loosing friends don't worry about it . I feel like I already lost couple.

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greenlife.mama
Whitney·Мама дочки (9 лет)

I dropped out of high school 2 years before i got pregnant, but I'm still only 18 & i get the same shit from people. I got my G.E.D as soon as i found out i was pregnant, i started showing then too so i got all the nasty looks. But as my pregnancy has gone on ive made a life for myself & for my baby. Her father & I have our own place & support ourselves. The best revenge in the world is coming out on top. You do what you gotta do for your baby, they should be praising you for still getting your diploma when you have so much to worry about. Dont let them get you down, most of them arent going anywhere after school anyways. Youll see that too. Head up mama💕

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yumiyukai
Emily·Мама сына (9 лет)

Also, the stress and sadness can really affect the baby so chin up! Everything's gonna be all right 💜👌🏽😊

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vanessasmommy
Mariah·Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет)

I'm 18 and I can so relate to you

it's hard being in school and watching everyone's reaction

and what their going to say

I just think of it this way

there not the ones who are pregnant you are so they have nothing to fear or talk about

as long as you pay no attention to them they will not be worried about it

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shakirars

that baby is a blessing, F what anybody else says. They're going to look and talk about you regardless so baby girl strut that stuff and give them something to talk about

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missing57user

I would say to block it out no matter what ppl will have something to say about whatever you do no matter what age you are you're doing a great job finishing school and being the mother your child deserves

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yumiyukai
Emily·Мама сына (9 лет)

I'm 20 but I already graduated hs but didn't finish college and I'm married... I can understand but baby girl you do you! I've seen many of my friends get pregnant in hs and graduated you can do it. Hs is the easiest part of life. Wait until college with kids 😰 and work. You'll do fine... If you put your mind and heart to it you'll succeed. Especially for a good life for your baby. 💜

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jennie825
Jennie·Мама троих детей

I was in the same shoes as you are in now....I was pregnant when I was a senior as well with my first child...it is hard at times to see the stares...and whispers...just remember that baby is more important than those ppl disrespecting you. this is your life....Let God judge you...which u know he wouldn't...they will have to answer to God on that sense...usually I was told the ppl talking bout other ppl have problems in there life and just wanna ruin others. Baby is a gift from God...that's what matters...sorry for preaching lol...just want u to feel a lil better cuz I know what ur going thru...hang in there.

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aydensmommy2016
rosita warn·Мама двоих (9 лет, 12 лет)

Hi, I was 18 and a senior when I had my daughter, unfortunately for me me and her father were not on good speaking terms and didn't get back to talking till after she was born. It's very hard when your young and even more so when your still in school, as long as you hold your head up high and show them that being pregnant young is not necessarily a bad thing and your okay with it so they should leave you alone about it. if you let them get to you it only puts stress on you and baby, and you end up missing the good things about being pregnant.

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missing509user
missing509user·Мама двоих (11 лет, 13 лет)

I'm 20 with baby #3

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curlykarla

even though I graduated last year all my "friends" stopped talking to me and look at me ugly.

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missing363user
missing363user·Мама дочки (9 лет)

Im 19 and i get it too. You just have to keep your head up and brush it off. The best type of revenge is proving them wrong. Dont let it get to you. You got this mamas

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