So me and my man just had the "how long are you going to work" talk. I think I'll try until it's too much, he is thinking I should only work one more month but I want to work as much as I can to help out. Any moms have input, when did you stop working? (We plan for me to stay home a year)
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Another post got me thinking... Do you think your child's name is unique?! By unique I mean shared by almost no-one else
need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Racial nickname I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
nharri22·
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I stopped the week before I had my baby because my boss didn't want me to go into labor and not have anyone to cover
Emily·
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I stopped working the day I went into labor lol
Jordin·
You didn't feel overly stressed ? @edomke @nharri22 my job is easy, I work at the college but I'm on my feet all the time! I'm due early May and thing mid April would be a good time
Emily·
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I am a stylist. I was on my feet 38 hours every week. It was very tough I was swollen and ended up having him 38 weeks which was good cuz doctors think I was starting to get preeclampsia so if you can I would do it earlier. But if you have to go back and can only have so much off I would wait as long as possible because it sucks going back to work lol
Kirsten·
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That's about how long in plan to stay home. I'm going to keep working and save as much money as possible so I can pay for myself that year and he doesn't have to work all the time and be gone. so I'm going to stay as long as possible but probably until a month or two depending on how I feel before my due date
Kirsten·
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But I'm a waitress. on my feet constantly
Alyssa Lusardi·
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Next week is my last week at work and I'll be 37 weeks pregnant
nharri22·
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@may_mommytobe, I worked as a waitress and in the local c store as a cashier, janitor, and in the deli making pizzas and sandwiches. It kept me fit and active during my pregnancy which is healthy but man my back hurt by the end of the day
Jordin·
@mommy2be15, see that's what I want to do. My SO works hard and would be gone during the week either way. He's more then willing to give me money but I just like having money I earned
Jordin·
@alusardi, I feel like that's the perfect amount of time
Alyssa Lusardi·
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You just have to listen to your body. I work on my feet so about a month ago I reduced my hours worked a week from 35 to 18 and next week is my official last week just because of the Braxton hicks contractions I have all day long. My body is telling me to chill for the last week or so and that's what I'm gonna do. Cause you'll regret not having a week or two to yourself before baby arrives
Kirsten·
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exactly. same lol @may_mommytobe
momma·
I worked up till the day before I was induced with my last pregnancy. I was always on the go. I use to manage 101 apartments. Now I'm a SAHM and wish I stayed active during this current pregnancy.
Tahtahme·
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I advise stopping a little before its impossible, especially if your husband supports you. Bringing on unwanted pains and scares is awful. My husband wanted me to stop 15 days before I did (I went by the Dr's recommendation) but I tried to keep running tons of errands and doing too much and ended up scaring us, so take it easy before you get to that point.
Jordin·
@tahtahme, @mommaz thank you for your feedback! I really appreciate it