Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(
GAME TIME never have I ever..
Locking your doors We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
Kimberly ·
Maybe he saw it as the best time to go because it didn't leave you alone with the kiddo & he thought you'd want your own time? Orrrr he just didn't think about it.
jamielynn07·
Мама подростка, беременна (22 нед.)
eh I see your point but I specifically told him I wanted to spend time with him @kimberlyyyy he just ignored me. TMI but we aren't ever alone or intimate with each other. maybe once a month. he works away for 14 days at a time. I don't think he's cheating or has anyone on the side. I just don't think he is attracted to me anymore or finds it important to spend time with me alone.
simla·
I think you are titled to your feelings but man might just forget that they have a brain and they should use it once in a while. If you didn't spell it out for him your intentions he probably just didn't think.
jamielynn07·
Мама подростка, беременна (22 нед.)
Boy isn't that the truth @secondtimemomtobe .. I just think it should come more natural every once in awhile. we've had this issue for a long time but I'm more sensitive to it now that I know we will have even less time together.
missing112user·
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I don't think your over reacting. i'm not married but ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years come the end of February. in these almost 2 years.. we've only been on ONE date. at that... it was a bad one. now that im pregnant. he acts like its so hard to just spend some time with me as much as he can now. he's either always at work, wanting to go to his friends house, or sleeping. and the time he does spend with me is either intimate time, or he's playing madden or call of duty. sometimes I get the feeling men just don't use all of their brain..then get mad at us when we tell them what it is we want. it's a lose lose situation for us sometimes.
jamielynn07·
Мама подростка, беременна (22 нед.)
amen! @misskaecolletto I seriously don't think anything matters to my husband. I had a boyfriend one time who would stop the world to spend time with me. I kind of miss that feeling every once in awhile. I don't need someone up my ass but I definitely would love an hour set aside for just him and I.. what kills me is I tell him.i want to spend more time together and he gets angry and defensive. like shouldn't he be flattered?
missing112user·
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@jamielynn07, that's how mine is. I always tell him I can play cards just as well as he can. the minute I start showing him I don't give a damn. thats when he starts the whole "I wanna spend the day together " thing. but for us this is also our first. so IDK if he's trying to get all of his partying and whatnot out. he's already admitted to being scared of becoming a dad. but he never keeps in mind being pregnant does a lot to a woman and sometimes it's even self esteem issues. lord knows 2 weeks ago I cried in his face bc I told him I just wanted to spend some time with him. it pretty much had him like "I have you for the rest of my life." but like I said. sometimes they just don't get what pregnancy does to a woman.
jamielynn07·
Мама подростка, беременна (22 нед.)
I'm so glad I'm not crazy and I'm not the only one who just needs some love haha @misskaecolletto my husband is sleeping on the couch right now and it's killing me but I'm turning on my "I don't care" switch. i say I want more time and he gets mad and gives me less. ugh whatever haha.
missing112user·
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@jamielynn07, it's even funnier when you deny them of intimate time when they want it at THEIR will. it kills mine each and everytime that's another form of punishment mine gets. "until you can spend some time with me. you don't get any sex. and that doesn't mean the first minute you give me time you get it either." he's slowly learning that he does some screwed up stuff. lol. just remember. power of the box still applies when you're pregnant!!