soooo .. idk if I'm just in my feelings because I'm pregnant & alone right now or what ... but is there anyone else out there with a fiancé or boyfriend that's older then them with no job , not going to school , or anything & your steady taking care of everything financially BUT he's a good dad & fiancé .. he waits on you hand and foot n does every/anything u ask him to . how do yall deal with the negative comments from friends & family about "a man is supposed to be a provider" ... or am I dumb and they are right ?? should things be different ? should he be doing more?
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No problem😊 went thru something similar. Told him about how I feel & he's been working ever since! Communication is key
@katherineja5, yea your most definitely right ! thank you so much
Yeah it can be hard, definitely don't let negative comments bother you. If you feel like he should find a part time job or look into schooling then tell him! Or at least talk to him about the idea & see how he feels.
I feel like he should be working also , he was when we first met .. he got really sick in June 2015 & had a stroke n he has been a stay at home dad taking care of my first born who isn't biologically his n taking care of me also when I'm home .. I guess I'm just letting all the negative comments get to me
That whole "a man should be a provider" thing is bullshit. Ignore those. If you feel like he should be doing more then tell him so! In my opinion he should be working or something, but if he's taking care of the house that's definitely not nothing!
@katherineja5, that it is! , I guess we are just going to have to sit down and talk