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I don't like the fact that i had to get a c section but I don't think Im any less of a mother for getting it I went…

I don't like the fact that i had to get a c section but I don't think Im any less of a mother for getting it I went through 3 days of labor and an hour of pushing to find out that my son's cord was wrapped around his neck and me pushing was suffocating him I got a major surgery to save my son's life and still got up that night against doctors orders because I wanted to take care of him

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missing171user

missing171userМама двоих (младенец)

I got to breastfeed right away with my first but since I got put under after they pulled her out (scar tissue and stuff they had to fix) I saw her for 2 seconds and was out for hours so my husband took care of her until I could get up, I got to breastfeed as soon as I woke up though

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positivemommy

SierraМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

Exactly, I never have had a c section but I have never thought of it differently some ppl can be so opinionated and uneducated. My mom had a csection with my youngest brother and it was so hard for her especially cuz she got staff infection after. @supermom1104

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supermom1104

BANNEDМама дочки-младенца

@positivemommy,

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supermom1104

BANNEDМама дочки-младенца

right I don't see a vaginal birth any differently... although its like dang I didnt get to experience a vaginal birth with my first baby I'm also like I don't even care, that's my baby regardless of how I got her, I am her mother, she is a product of me.

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positivemommy

SierraМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

If you carry a life inside of you and raise your child right. That's what makes u a mother, nobody has a right to say otherwise. Even if a woman chose to have a csection for no "medical" reason, it's her body she can bring her baby into this world however she would like.

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supermom1104

BANNEDМама дочки-младенца

right haha I don't even feel like I get much more sleep I just feel like I'm used to getting absolutely none haha what's tired?! I say this to my boyfriend when he complains about being tired 😴

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k.jsmom

k.jsmomМама сына-младенца

I didn't know what to do it was sooo much harder than anyone could have explained @supermom1104 the only thing that got me through it was cuddling my son every night plus after awhile you get use to being sleep deprived

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supermom1104

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right I totally agree, I felt so helpless at first I would cry so much just from lack of sleep I didn't know what to do but things have been so much better for me. I'm just loving and enjoying my little one

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k.jsmom

k.jsmomМама сына-младенца

I've never been so exhausted and in so much pain some nights I would sit and just cry @supermom1104 not being in so much pain makes it 100x easier

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supermom1104

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yep same but if I sat too long my body would cramp up so I had to force my body to get up its fucking sucked so bad im so glad I'm passed it all and better adjusted to things

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k.jsmom

k.jsmomМама сына-младенца

same and it was just me thank god my dad had muscle relaxers that's the only thing that got me through the newborn phase I brought all his stuff that I need upstairs so I wouldn't have to cause those stairs hurt like a mother fuc*** it got to the point where I couldn't even walk

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supermom1104

BANNEDМама дочки-младенца

I totally understand my healing process has been horrible plus I had no pain medication once I got home and was up and down the stairs all day, my pain tripled when I got home and now my incisions infected, definitely sucks

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k.jsmom

k.jsmomМама сына-младенца

@supermom1104, I wish I hadn't got up as fast as I did I wanted to deny help and ended up having a terribly long healing process because I wasn't sleeping

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supermom1104

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I was walking next day I still took care of my baby, someone just brought her to the bed for me and I breastfed her

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k.jsmom

k.jsmomМама сына-младенца

@momma1, I guess I was lucky then it hurt like hell but I was walking that night cause I had him in the morning

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k.jsmom

k.jsmomМама сына-младенца

@lilyandkaidynsmommy, lol I was numb but could hobble a little bit my mom was their helping me but I felt weird letting someone else take care of him I tried to breast feed right after I had him

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momma1

MarianaМама сына-младенца

@k.jsmom, I couldn't walk for 2 days it sucked because I couldn't change my sons diaper😢

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missing171user

missing171userМама двоих (младенец)

Girl I was still numb for like 24 hours how did you get up lol

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

I don't think she gets it.

I don't think she gets it. I swear sometimes I just need to renew my policy to not look at the comments in Facebook. I never used to. I don't know why I started. But the ignorance is real.