I don't like the fact that i had to get a c section but I don't think Im any less of a mother for getting it I went through 3 days of labor and an hour of pushing to find out that my son's cord was wrapped around his neck and me pushing was suffocating him I got a major surgery to save my son's life and still got up that night against doctors orders because I wanted to take care of him
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Exactly, I never have had a c section but I have never thought of it differently some ppl can be so opinionated and uneducated. My mom had a csection with my youngest brother and it was so hard for her especially cuz she got staff infection after. @supermom1104
right I don't see a vaginal birth any differently... although its like dang I didnt get to experience a vaginal birth with my first baby I'm also like I don't even care, that's my baby regardless of how I got her, I am her mother, she is a product of me.
If you carry a life inside of you and raise your child right. That's what makes u a mother, nobody has a right to say otherwise. Even if a woman chose to have a csection for no "medical" reason, it's her body she can bring her baby into this world however she would like.
right haha I don't even feel like I get much more sleep I just feel like I'm used to getting absolutely none haha what's tired?! I say this to my boyfriend when he complains about being tired 😴
I didn't know what to do it was sooo much harder than anyone could have explained @supermom1104 the only thing that got me through it was cuddling my son every night plus after awhile you get use to being sleep deprived
right I totally agree, I felt so helpless at first I would cry so much just from lack of sleep I didn't know what to do but things have been so much better for me. I'm just loving and enjoying my little one
I've never been so exhausted and in so much pain some nights I would sit and just cry @supermom1104 not being in so much pain makes it 100x easier
yep same but if I sat too long my body would cramp up so I had to force my body to get up its fucking sucked so bad im so glad I'm passed it all and better adjusted to things
same and it was just me thank god my dad had muscle relaxers that's the only thing that got me through the newborn phase I brought all his stuff that I need upstairs so I wouldn't have to cause those stairs hurt like a mother fuc*** it got to the point where I couldn't even walk
I totally understand my healing process has been horrible plus I had no pain medication once I got home and was up and down the stairs all day, my pain tripled when I got home and now my incisions infected, definitely sucks
@supermom1104, I wish I hadn't got up as fast as I did I wanted to deny help and ended up having a terribly long healing process because I wasn't sleeping
I was walking next day I still took care of my baby, someone just brought her to the bed for me and I breastfed her
@momma1, I guess I was lucky then it hurt like hell but I was walking that night cause I had him in the morning
@lilyandkaidynsmommy, lol I was numb but could hobble a little bit my mom was their helping me but I felt weird letting someone else take care of him I tried to breast feed right after I had him
@k.jsmom, I couldn't walk for 2 days it sucked because I couldn't change my sons diaper😢
Girl I was still numb for like 24 hours how did you get up lol
I got to breastfeed right away with my first but since I got put under after they pulled her out (scar tissue and stuff they had to fix) I saw her for 2 seconds and was out for hours so my husband took care of her until I could get up, I got to breastfeed as soon as I woke up though