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Julianna
Julianna
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (15 нед.)

ok so I really messed things up with my bf and I need advise! :'( he cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship…

ok so I really messed things up with my bf and I need advise! :'( he cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship and we got through that after he cried for me to forgive him but he said not to ever bring it up and yesterday I messed up and got mad at him and text him accusing him :'( he got upset and broke up with me! today he said he has to see a change in me before he even consider getting back with ne because he is tired of me accusing him and I love him so much what do I do? no rudeness please

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jennyrose1145

jennyМама двоих (6 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего

He cheated on you and just because he doesn't want you to talk about doesn't mean it didn't happen and doesn't mean the hurt and broken trust just goes away. If he truly wants to be with you, it shouldn't matter you accused him cause he's the one who broke your trust. He's the one that should earn you back not the other way around. You did nothing wrong. I would evaluate if I was over or forgave my bf first and then I'd look at his actions to make me accuse him. I know I deserve a man who is loyal and true and I'm sure you do to. Don't let him make you feel bad for something HE did.

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mommy_of_an_angel_preemie

GiovannaМама дочки-младенца

np problem momma @jujulove13

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jujulove13

JuliannaМама сына (2 года), беременна (15 нед.)

thank you so much ladies

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jujulove13

JuliannaМама сына (2 года), беременна (15 нед.)

I'm trying so hard to talk to him but he doesn't want to talk he only talked to me to ask me what size diapers my son wears to bring him some and the thing is my son isn't his but my son sees him as a dad and I'm expecting a baby by him so it just really sucks

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jujulove13

JuliannaМама сына (2 года), беременна (15 нед.)

thank you so much @mommy_of_an_angel_preemie your rite and I haven't said anything about it. it's just slipped yesterday :/

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jstncrazy2

Randi

Thats*

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jstncrazy2

Randi

@babycasey is right. That the definition of blame shifting. He made a major mistake by cheating and he doesn't want to ever be reminded of it again, which is not okay Bc trust takes time now

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themomsteroftwo

Ashleyyyyyyy❤Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (14 нед.)

sorry but you have every reason to act like that I've been cheated on and its not easy to get over it and he broke up with you over so petty shit that he caused you to think from cheating on you ? honestly I'd let him go if he can let you go for just accusing him but you keep him even though he cheated ? wow....

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alexinwonderland

alexМама сына (7 лет), беременна (22 нед.)

Sorry to hear your having a rough time. I hope things get better.

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mommy_of_an_angel_preemie

GiovannaМама дочки-младенца

Okay baby I'm not going to be rude just real. Baby if you forgave him and moved on your only using that he cheated out of anger. I've been there done that so I know, but momma if he hasn't given you a reason to think other wise, dont use his past discretion against him when your mad your wrong for that lol. The greatness in a relationship is sticking together no matter what. Now what you choose to except is one thing, but if you can't handle what he did in the past then leave him alone naybe you thought you forgave him but you didn't. However, if he's been loving you, being faithful, real, and true to you then girl stop that it isn't right nor is it fair. I get your anger baby but let it go you both have a new beginning to live so leave the past just there, in the past! much love

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jujulove13

JuliannaМама сына (2 года), беременна (15 нед.)

yes girls I was having a bad day cried like 8 times yesterday and when he text me saying something I didn't like I made that comment he says he loves me with all his heart but that he can't keep dealing with my stuff

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mommytolaynee

lacy

if you want a future with him then you should try to forget the past people mess up it happens but if you don't have trust then you don't have a relationship if you want to be with him then you should try to tell him that it still bothers you. just talk to him hun

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babycasey

Crystle 💋

sounds like he's blame shifting.... he broke your trust and that definitely needs to be earned back not forced back if that makes sense.

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aubreysmommy

Shay R

he should be a little more aware of your feelings & emotions because your pregnant & even tho as females we forgive that's the first thing that comes to our mind when stuff starts going bad .. don't beat yourself up about it , he will realize he is being stupid , just give it a few cooling off days

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rainbowbaby2015

SummerВ ожидании первенца

Do his parents like you? The reason I'm askin is because you could talk to his mom and ask her to explain to him girls are more hormonal when pregnant and maybe he can understand. You were having a bad day and things got a little more hurtful then thought but I'm sure he'll come around. Or even if he liked your mom she could talk to him. My boyfriends mom and stepdad did for me and it worked.

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