He cheated on you and just because he doesn't want you to talk about doesn't mean it didn't happen and doesn't mean the hurt and broken trust just goes away. If he truly wants to be with you, it shouldn't matter you accused him cause he's the one who broke your trust. He's the one that should earn you back not the other way around. You did nothing wrong. I would evaluate if I was over or forgave my bf first and then I'd look at his actions to make me accuse him. I know I deserve a man who is loyal and true and I'm sure you do to. Don't let him make you feel bad for something HE did.

np problem momma @jujulove13

thank you so much ladies

I agree with @ashley89

I'm trying so hard to talk to him but he doesn't want to talk he only talked to me to ask me what size diapers my son wears to bring him some and the thing is my son isn't his but my son sees him as a dad and I'm expecting a baby by him so it just really sucks

thank you so much @mommy_of_an_angel_preemie your rite and I haven't said anything about it. it's just slipped yesterday :/

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@babycasey is right. That the definition of blame shifting. He made a major mistake by cheating and he doesn't want to ever be reminded of it again, which is not okay Bc trust takes time now

sorry but you have every reason to act like that I've been cheated on and its not easy to get over it and he broke up with you over so petty shit that he caused you to think from cheating on you ? honestly I'd let him go if he can let you go for just accusing him but you keep him even though he cheated ? wow....

Sorry to hear your having a rough time. I hope things get better.

Okay baby I'm not going to be rude just real. Baby if you forgave him and moved on your only using that he cheated out of anger. I've been there done that so I know, but momma if he hasn't given you a reason to think other wise, dont use his past discretion against him when your mad your wrong for that lol. The greatness in a relationship is sticking together no matter what. Now what you choose to except is one thing, but if you can't handle what he did in the past then leave him alone naybe you thought you forgave him but you didn't. However, if he's been loving you, being faithful, real, and true to you then girl stop that it isn't right nor is it fair. I get your anger baby but let it go you both have a new beginning to live so leave the past just there, in the past! much love

yes girls I was having a bad day cried like 8 times yesterday and when he text me saying something I didn't like I made that comment he says he loves me with all his heart but that he can't keep dealing with my stuff

if you want a future with him then you should try to forget the past people mess up it happens but if you don't have trust then you don't have a relationship if you want to be with him then you should try to tell him that it still bothers you. just talk to him hun

sounds like he's blame shifting.... he broke your trust and that definitely needs to be earned back not forced back if that makes sense.

he should be a little more aware of your feelings & emotions because your pregnant & even tho as females we forgive that's the first thing that comes to our mind when stuff starts going bad .. don't beat yourself up about it , he will realize he is being stupid , just give it a few cooling off days

Do his parents like you? The reason I'm askin is because you could talk to his mom and ask her to explain to him girls are more hormonal when pregnant and maybe he can understand. You were having a bad day and things got a little more hurtful then thought but I'm sure he'll come around. Or even if he liked your mom she could talk to him. My boyfriends mom and stepdad did for me and it worked.