Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
If on the weekend ur unborn child's father get his son from his bm and barely answers his phone and don't text....what would u think? Do u think he's spending time with the bm as well or he just wants to spend time with His son without being bothered?
I think my boyfriend just slick told me he still go through my phone 🤔 but for what?
Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my baby's father and I are together, when we met and I got pregnant he was here working, he went back to work out of town after I found out I was pregnant and only comes back once a month, he supports me financially, which was mostly his choice bc he makes good money, we are doing fine on money.. but I'm almost 31 weeks and as I get closer I'm really worried about raising my daughter on my own, he plans to continue to come back only once a month even when she is born and it really scares me, even though I know we will need the money since I won't be working, I still feel like I'm going to be alone raising our daughter, when we talk about it all he has to say is he doesn't see any other way, but he's never lived here, let alone had a job here, and I know of so many places where he could get a job easily when he's here for one of his monthly visits and he just keeps saying that he can't quit his job and move here without having a stable job, and I keep telling him he can,find a job before he quits this one, but yet he's not even trying to find a job when he's here, he hasnt researched job openings or called anywhere, sometimes I feel like he's just comfortable with what is happening and it really hurts me to think about my daughter not having him here, and raising her alone, for one he's never been around a baby, doesnt have a clue how to raise one, and has never even HELD a baby, so I feel like if he only comes back once a month then he's never going to learn how to help with her, let alone know her, and her recognize him when he is here... every time we talk about it, it just turns into an argument and I'm to the point where I feel like I'm wasting my breathe... I just really don't know what to do, I'm scared, and need help and I feel like he doesn't wanna risk anything by moving here when I really need him. am I overreacting??? btw don't get me wrong, I'm beyond grateful for him, with everything he does, and all the financial support he provides, but I've never been "taken care of" (for lack of better words) and I would rather work too, just to have him here to help me and be with his daughter and sometimes I feel like that's not an option to him... it's really depressing me and scaring me. don't be afraid to tell me if I sound like a spoiled bitch or something, I honestly need yalls HONEST OPINION. 😞
Melissa·
oh wow. your better than Me. mines don't even want me to have his password but I figure it out the time and even though I know it this time I refuse to go through it. I don't have a fuck and the energy to anymore. smh @mamabird
Mimi·
Мама дочки-младенца
Exactly @aniyasmommy
Melissa·
Right. mine is the same. He's a really good boyfriend and I know he loves me dearly but it's that one flaw that can ruin everything we've built. @mimiz
mamabird·
Многодетная мама (8 детей)
the feeling sucks even though I had his password I never went through his phone cuz I had a horrible feeling and I guess I didn't want to know, well one day he left his phone behind and I went through it, found out he's been fucking hookers. oh what a bond fire that was that night, had the neighborhood kids over roasting hot dogs and marshmallows over his burning shit.
Mimi·
Мама дочки-младенца
Yessssss mine says that eventually if we ever break up and he sees me with someone else he'll freak out wherever he sees me I'm like you better not because you have your chance right now and you've had it before to fix things I mean he's not bad like he's a really good person he's a great husband and I have no issues with him like he doesn't ignore me or anything like that just that one problem that's his weakness you know
Melissa·
Right. We've already won cuz regardless we have a child together but you going to hurt once you see me with someone else @mimiz
Mimi·
Мама дочки-младенца
Yes exactly but hey when we ain't around they'll know. And they'll be stuck with some broad
Melissa·
Exactly. like I could be just like him and have other dudes on my line but I choose not too because of my loyalty and devotion to him. Smh @mimiz
Brittani 👑🌻·
В ожидании первенца
Girl yes, like as soon as a simple ding or tone goes off its like they have 2 seconds to get it or they die.
Mimi·
Мама дочки-младенца
Many of us woman are satisfied with one man and unfortunately not many men are satisfied with one woman no matter how much he supposedly loves her
Melissa·
yeah. me too while he's constantly on it @megbaby07
Brittani 👑🌻·
В ожидании первенца
I barely touch my phone so I understand that
Melissa·
Right smh. I don't understand what's so hard about it. I don't do it so neither should you @mimiz @megbaby07
chelsea·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm on the same train girl
Brittani 👑🌻·
В ожидании первенца
🖐🏼 worst feeling
Mimi·
Мама дочки-младенца
Me. I learned to ignore it or I'll go crazy.