Hi ladies so here we go for the vent. By the way this happened last night. First off I have had sex once since I had my daughter since my bf her dad and I were broken up while I was pregnant and until Kylie was 4 and a half months old. He told me last night that if he doesn't get sex he will go somewhere else. I told him to pack his shit and leave to be with whoever he was texting since I checked his pgone thinking it was mine. He has messages to another girl say hey baby. and she asked me to yake care of Kylie so she could shower she is so lazy she cant figure out how to shower when the baby sleeps. and goes on to this weekend shes not going to be here you can come here and we.can get freaky... I am so broken and then he says I misread it. How do you misread that? Then I ended up hyperventilating and my blood sugar dropped since I forgot to eat diner. So he stayed to be here for me since he felt bad. then this morning I get a im sorry I need you and our daughter in my life. I am so broken from this. Do thats my rant I dont know what to do or say and im confused on it all.
If he is seeing/messaging other women then I wouldn't even give him another chance. There would be no trust whatsoever. You wouldn't want your daughter to grow up thinking it's ok for men to do that to her either. You deserve someone better
I honestly won't stay with him. Not only is he msging another woman but then is trying to pull a "it wasn't me" with the you misread comment, really? You deserve better and so does your daughter. Remember what your daughter sees how u are treated she will think is normal, which is not. She will look to both you and her father to see what a healthy relationship is.