I been feeling ugly and fat lately. I get so depressed but everyone reminds me I'm pregnant but it just so emotional for me. Even my husband tell me I'm beautiful but I don't feel like its enough. I just had my daughter 7 months ago and now 5 months pregnant with my second child I just feel like I lost my self esteem. I am not selfish I love my kids but my confidence hit the roof. I just feel ugly while other look nice and pretty and I'm the fat one.
my daughter was 3 months when i found out i was pregnant again. i do feel ugly sometimes, all the time i feel fat my so tells me i look pretty and beautiful. i just cant wait to have my baby so i can start working on getting my body back its been long since ive seen myself pretty
@nana2140, thank you so much. I hope so, I really would love confidence back so I can motivate myself to do alot and at the end enjoy my kids. but yes I will definitely get my body back to a comfortable place and be happy with in my self :)
it will be over soon and then you can enjoy the new baby. I know for me it took about 4 months after the baby before my body looked closer to what I was comfortable with. then I did some light walking, biking and sex, and I was my good old self again.
thank you @mrsmord its just been hard at time being myself but I know I'll be back to my old self after the baby. I love to enjoy my pregnancy and kids as well. Just want this to be quick and easy I can focus on them aand less on my feeling. Thank you again its make my day alot better and brighter
Aw I know the feeling , I had my son in February and found out I was pregnant may , basically two kids in one year ! I hardly lost the weight from my first it was horrible I cried a lot , but my husband reminds me everyday that I'm beautiful . Focus on yourself and do what makes you feel good . That's the only thing you can do - And just remember pregnancy isn't forever ! And it will end soon and you'll have a cute little baby and you'll feel Good and back to yourself in no time !
thank you @jassyberry. I remember thanks for keeping my spirit up really makes feel alot better :)
your beautiful don't feel that way hun !! you motivate me to do better !! @cristina545
Thank You I believe that will be the best idea ever. Yes I should I just get caught up with my feeling that I lose myself but love my kids.
You should go get a pedicure or go shopping anything to that will make you feel better focus on yourself , your feelings are normal. I had my daughter then got pregnant with my son right after and I felt the same way.
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
I feel like all you girls on here hate me 😔 so I'm gonna delete this app ✌️
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Welp if it makes y’all feel better , I was hoping my own baby didn’t come out ugly because my baby daddy be looking ugly to me sometimes .
being on bed rest for preterm labor kind of sucks. I never had any problems with my first son besides getting really fat. but I feel like I can't do anything. #1 its way to painful for me to even do small things #2 I feel like our roommates and everyone else just looks at me like I'm lazy.. :P #3 I feel so helpless. .. doctor said no going for walks. no sex. no cleaning. no nothing. just have to be in bed or on the couch.
Yeah I feel like that sometimes but I realized I have to remind myself I have a beautiful. daughter and being pregnant makes me much more beautiful. Its tough but I have to let myself know I am a mom but nomatter what I am beautiful even if I am not the same as I use to look. You are beautiful, dont ever feel like you cant be because you are and always look at your angels and everything you feel will go away.