being on bed rest for preterm labor kind of sucks. I never had any problems with my first son besides getting really fat. but I feel like I can't do anything. #1 its way to painful for me to even do small things #2 I feel like our roommates and everyone else just looks at me like I'm lazy.. :P #3 I feel so helpless. .. doctor said no going for walks. no sex. no cleaning. no nothing. just have to be in bed or on the couch.
I bet found what I'm hear you sound like a great lady(: & mommy
omg too much cuteness
she looks so happy when your with her (: aww too cute
damn that is a hard one.. pooor girl will need you. :/ but your doing everything you can girl<3
me too. that's the only reason I'm nervous about moving. idk what they are gonna do when were gone. @ktwins188
yeah I so understand what you mean. I'm so glad you at less show her love her parents are not showing...
because either she would get sent to a not very good foster home. or she would get adopted by someone not good too. Idk I just feel like she needs her parents even if they are shitty instead of being passed from home to home. I dont think they are abusing her. just not taking very good care of her. @ktwins188
I feel like getting help she would just end up in the same situation. @ktwins188
dammn. but do you think they miss treat the baby. you haven't thought of getting her help?? cps ... :(
I do all the time. I love that little girl as if she was my own. if there was anyway to adopt her i seriously would in a heartbeat. that's why when I get home and I hear her crying I walk straight back to her room and pick her up. they hardly ever hold her. she is always in her room eating and watching tv. she's 5 months old.
omg what a dick!!!
omg... no way if you think something going on keep an eye on that baby...
I'm not really sure. I'm pretty sure the dad hits the mom tho. and she's always got that baby rash cream on her because she's all red and sore down there.. it makes me wonder what he does when he changes her. I know that's bad to say. but he is not a good guy at all . most the time he asks me to change her cause he doesn't feel good.
omg awful people don't deserve to have kids... I hope they don't hit the baby
yes basically and her boyfriend. he wont even hold their baby. he just lets her cry if he s watching her. @ktwins188
Yeah she is a bitch. I can't wait to be out of here. she doesn't care about anyone but herself. @february2016
omg what a bitch! I think she did that shit on purpose. I'd be like there yours you put them away
omg she's just using her daughter for extra food stamps
I hate when people do that. it's awful!! yess its hard and hurt alot but I've verry excited girl
it's my first pregnancy its gonna be a challenge but I will succeed. awwww. I'm sorry I hope you find the apartment your looking for
she does have food stamps. and she gets extra with her being on there. I bet its even harder with twins! I bet your excited tho! Lol well we weren't planning on it but sounds like we didnt get the apartment we wanted. so we need to start looking again. @ktwins188
I know right . I'm in bad pain all the twin but its so worth it girl. I'm carrying twins so every pain I get I just rub it off and continue my day but I feel so bad for you :( ........ ew thays awful I get mad at people like that I bet she just also use her daughter for etrxa food stamp. or I can be wrong .
are you planning to live their when your baby is born??
&& yess god put those who are strong into challenges he knows you can make it
I know!! she is weird! I still love being pregnant even tho I'm in pain most the time. I still love my little wiggle worm. lol she's just dumb and shouldn't of had a child. especially with her boyfriend. worst dad ever !! worst parents ever! Lol thanks for letting me vent. I'm sure I have more. but that would create an entire novel. lol I'm trying. Its so hard sometimes. but I guess I wouldn't be going through it if God thought I couldn't handle it. @ktwins188
omg she's so weird I never heard someone saying that about being pregnant.
pregnancy is so beautiful and I'm so sorry your having a hard time with it :(/but don't let her stress you out too much girl. I see what your saying . && its fine everyone need to vent here and there (:
just try to really take it easy girl remember your in bed rest & try to ignore her . for trying to make you do things
No she doesn't . her pregnancy was easy. ya she may have hated being pregnant but that's cause she hates kids and says it felt creepy to be pregnant. She still could clean and everything . she didnt get very big. but its whatever. I'm just looking forward to the day where we dont live with them anymore and see them struggle without us. they have so many rules set for us. that it feels like were children even tho were older . lol @ktwins188 . sorry I guess I'm kind of ranting.
danng girl I know your too nice and don't want to sound mean but come on I'm sure she understands she's been pregnant before. ..
I'm too nice... she had to go pick up her baby which she never has. she's always with her mom or aunt. and its so irritating. i was mad at her. she wanted me to help carry it up the stairs but I said no and she said can you at least help me put them away ? and I expected them to be sitting on the counter and by the time I came out to do it she was already gone. I'm so ready for me and my husband to be in our own place.. @ktwins188
omg I would get so mad at her. I would tell her first of all don't you understand I'm on bed rest get off your ass and do it your not risking anything. step up for your self girl. don't have them tell you to so anything..
I am. apparently my roomate doesn't understand what bed rest is. she just asked me to put some heavy groceries away and she out them on the floor. if they had been on the counter it would of been so much easier. I'm hoping 36-37 weeks he will be here. that way his lungs are basically developed. and I'll actually be able to deliver at my hospital. I feel so exhausted now. lol @ktwins188 . @february2016
believe me you won't be getting any rest for a bit after baby's there so you might as well take it while you can lol you aren't lazy promise
hahaha I know what you mean my nesting kicked in weeks ago :p but sometimes I'm like ehh I can do it tomorrow
ohh my I'm sorry your going through that it'll get better baby be there before you know it. hopefully not too early though but it'll go by faster than ya think.
I'm trying. I feel like my nesting to finally kicked in but I can't do anything about it til I'm 36 weeks. I might as well just schoot my butt across the floor and pick things up. lol
hubby. don't feel that way. for one your on bed rest your not lazy at all. I bet if you could you be up and down. so don't put it hard on your self. your almost done girl just relax and enjoy your rest.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
AF due 29th, anyone else?
Hi all AF is due 29th Sept for me feels like forever away. Has anyone tested yet or when do you plan on testing x
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
your welcome (: I really hope so. I pray every night telling the lord how I want to be the best mom I can be to my twins . I'd do anything for them <3