Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
is it wrong of me to be upset my bf works a lot? he works 6 days a week, nights. & on his day off he sleeps all day. i never see him, spend time with him, i’m not intimate with him, nothing. i only get help from him when he’s awake bc he wants to be left alone to sleep which is understandable. he gets mad i complain that he works too much. & i was talking to a girl at my job about it and she said i shouldn’t be mad bc he’s making money & told me who wouldn’t want their man making money? & it’s not even about that it’s the fact i’m a single mom 6 days a week and never spend time w my bf. am i wrong for being upset or should i be happy he’s working a lot?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Pretty angry with SO My SO works a lot. He has the day off but won't get out of bed. Our son dearly loves him and misses him so much when he's at work. Today would have been a great day for them to spend some time together. I have to go to the store to get a few things: milk, diapers, toilet paper, you know very necessary things. My son has a cold and I don't want to take him put if I don't have to. It's almost 3:30 now, and SO has been asleep since 11pm last night. I woke him and told him I need to run out and to watch our son while I'm gone. He said he'll be up by 5. That's unacceptable to me. He's whining about how tired he is which I understand since he works a lot, but he's been asleep for almost 18 hours now. I'm 30 weeks pregnant and can't tell you the last time I got even 4 hours of sleep in a night between being pregnant and my son still not sleeping through the night. Am I overreacting or do I have a right to be angry?
missing108user·
Мама троих детей
It gets easier as the baby gets older hang in there! The first weeks are horrible! I know exactly how you feel, it really sucks having no type of help. My sons father worked 3rd shift when our baby was first born. It was the worst I swear I was a walking zombie I have a 7 year old so I had to be up all day & you know get up early & stay up late nights I had no breaks at all it really really sucks but I promise you, it will get better!!
Jackie·
Мама сына-младенца
@aek91, thank you