For those mommies who lost a child, is it common to have baby fever afterwards? I just think I fought for Ethan so hard & ended up losing at the end. So now I'm like " ok I kno ...

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For those mommies who lost a child, is it common to have baby fever afterwards? I just think I fought for Ethan so hard & ended up losing at the end. So now I'm like " ok I kno I can have a child for sure sooooo why not try again 5 months or so down the line" I'm looking at my age wise too ( no offense to the older moms ) I don't wana wait too late..You don't have to comment here; inbox is just fine. Call me crazy I kno.

Brande' · Answer

For* us

Brande' · Answer

@whitney yea I have a check up next month to make sure I'm ok. But it's gon take a lot of convening with the father. Now it's like walking on eggshells with each other at this point. N I'm not trying to wait so long n it be to late or US and/or a baby.

Brande' · Answer

& now it's like all I see is baby!!!

Brande' · Answer

Yeah that's what I think it is " fill the gap"... You kno u want that bond again. & that's where I'm at. @their.bomb.ass.mom

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It's really common to feel that way. After my second loss my doctor told me I could try again after my first cycle and that I would be more fertile during this time. I decided to wait 3 months before trying again and then it took us over a year to conceive again. Everyone is different though!

missing145user · Answer

I don't think it's crazy, I think it's natural to want a child. Especially after losing one, you want to "fill the gap." Not saying another child could ever replace your lost one! But it makes sense to me. Even after my daughter was just born I wanted another. So I couldn't imagine how much I'd want to try for another if I had lost her or something.

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