I'm so upset my husband just informed me, that my 16 yr. Old daughter told him while I was gone that I was a bad Mom…

@meadlenaya41701 a slap across the mouth...no matter how hard...is abuse🙄...you should really take the advice these women are giving you. It's not your fault you think the way you do. We can blame it on your mother. But you don't have to live up to statistics by continuing the abuse. This is a different time then when you were raised. If you got caught smacking your kids across the mouth you can bet you would have CPS knocking on the door...why would you do that to your children???

@massgirl, well it’s not that different of a time she is like 18, but everything else you’re on point.

@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts, ahh that explains it then.

That's abuse. But keep trying to justify it.

That's abuse.

That's definitely abuse what In the world is wrong with you! Your poor children

@meadlenaya41701, You’re right. You seem like a great person.

@meadlenaya41701, and how far have you gone in life?

There have been studies done that children who’ve grown from abusive families tend to have not graduated high school, college is minimum to none, have unsteady relationships, have issues with finding solid work, anddddd also use violence with their children like they’re parents did with them.

We already know that you’re okay with violence. But, tell us more? Did you beat the odds and become successful? Are you in a solid relationship with a good career? Did you prove these studies wrong?

@jennatess lol that's great. Tell us more!!!! @meadlenaya41701

Just ignore it. Or act like you don’t care. I’ve said some stuff I still apologize for 15 years later to my parents. Teenagers are grumpy assholes. That’s life. I’m sorry. She’ll grow out of it with time.

Tell her to come to my house - we don’t eat meat. She’d be extra pissed off.

@jennatess, 😂😂😂 I’m weak “we don’t eat meat, she’d be extra pissed”

@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts, 😂. Like girl, you could have it way “worse”.

@amymonroe27, to her she may be doing everything. It’s perspective. She is 16. I asked my son to clean up his toys and you would think I asked him to build a house from the ground up. How many other kids do you have? Are you able to spend one day a week for a few hours with your 16 yr old? Work on your bond. Listen to each others wants, concerns and discuss the positive things as well. She is 16 and she still needs you and desires your attention and approval. Praise her, include her, love her and make her feel important.

@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts she will have 7 when this baby is born

@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts I have 6 kids one on the way, and my oldest 2 are adults and on there own. As of now there's 4 kids at home

He said he sat back and listened, he said it was alot to take in

@meadlenaya41701 and I hope if the day does come she hits your ass right back. No excuse to hit your kid.

And what good would that do? She’s a teenager. Teens say shitty things. They don’t think before they speak. Violence would only make her more angry and rude. She’ll grow out of it in time.

Slap them with the words that come out your mouth . Not ur hands . They are your children though . You will do it what ever way you been doing it . I think a taste of they own medicine is best .