I need to vent, I know I vent a lot but dear lord help me.

I'm tired of feeling like I'm just the maid in the house of two grown men, I get told that I never do anything in the house and when I do it isn't appreciated. I tell my SO to start picking his clothes up and put them in the hamper and he still doesn't do it so my daughter and I are tripping over his crap! I'm getting over it, my daughters getting into everything (trash and dog food) I want to get things put somewhere else or hide things so she's not eating things out of the trash and I get accused of "changing the house the way I want" 😑 (it's his dad's house) I'm over it... So over his "jokes" that make me feel like shit. And because he has the job and I don't he gets to pick the food out for us all but he thinks of himself instead of my daughter and I. He throws in my face the diapers and wipes his had to buy.. But seriously I just recently lost my job. I have no idea what to do anymore, I'm torn between leaving and staying or thinking we moved in together to quick.