*Giant non pregnancy related rant* I think i've completely given up on my oh. He is never home..when he is he doesn't do anything to help me. At night sometimes i have to call my mum if i need help with anything because i call him 50 times while hes sleeping and he just ignores me. This weekend his sister came from london to meet kendrick and we were at his mums..he brought me home and went back saying he was just going to take something for his mum and would be right back. 2 hours later i called him because i was feeling super unwell and the baby wouldn't stop crying and he said ok im coming...1 hour after that i call him again and he says he didnt come because he says knew i was lying ?! and just wanted him to come home. When i called him again just now he was half asleep and saying he isnt coming home because i pissed him off. For asking for help ?! I ended up having to wake my mum up (when she has work at 7am) for her to help me settle kendrick because i just couldnt. How can a person im suposed to love make me regret the thing i wanted the most ever in my life ? I regret the family im giving him sometimes 😢 im so exhausted from not sleeping and having to take care of an ill baby and al i get from him is shit. I complained about him not helping and he said well who pays for all his stuff ... for him money solves everything which is the way he was brought up to be honest. Sorry for the long post but i needed to get it out 😢 20 to 5 and im wide awake balling my eyes out trying not to throw all his shit in the streets.
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@kendricksmommy, exactly! You know what's best for your baby so just focus on him and making yourself happy xx
Bless you sweetie like Jade said try and sit down and talk to him.
And it's true about anxiety separation issues.
my firsts dad wasn't around alot when she was a baby and used to scream the house down when he took her.
He really regrets it now that he wasn't around.
your strong hun.
chin up.
Hugs. xx
@jade_17, im gonna try to talk to him but im sure it wont work..i feel like he rejects the baby :( but oh well..all baby needs is me so he wont be needed xx
Oh precious! 😰 it's hard when you have an ill baby at the best of times! I think you need to talk to your man about how you feel & that he needs to step up because being a father isn't about money... It's about wanting to spend every waking moment with your baby. He needs to be reminded that Kendrick isn't going to stay small forever & he'll develop separation anxiety in a couple of months where he won't want to go to people he doesn't know. That could be your OH! Don't do anything drastic. Just talk to him. Xx
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
Was it wrong for me to take Deandre phone because it took to long for him to complete his homework it’s not that he needed him he just wanted to play
HELP!!! So my boyfriend hasn't came home in 24 hours he called today at 130 pm and said he was gunna be coming home soon. Its 9pm and he isnt home and his phone is off. The friend he was with I called and his phone is also off. I have a feeling they were drinking and his friend was driving. What should I do.? Getting real worried!
@jade_17, @bee1979 Thank you girls !x