Well it's 4am again...husband is at another bar. Told him at 1 I want to go to the hospital because of the cramps I'm having. He keeps turning his phone on to text on whatsapp but then turns it off. He won't answer my calls or texts. I'm sitting at home crying in pain. This is the 3rd time in less than 2 months and the last time was less than a week ago. I need to move back to Ohio. It's final.
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So sorry to hear that. I hope everything gets better as soon as possible
girl its my husband that's what infuriates me! and thanks ❤@karinagrace
Try to stay as calm as possible for the baby. You may have to do to your boyfriend as he dose too you. Tune him out, & only care for baby. And if you need anything at all I don't care for the time, send me a message I'm 10 to 25 minutes away.
oh shit yeah Deerfield isnt far. i know my heart is going to start pounding once i hear his keys.right now im passed mad..sad..everything. @karinagrace
Definitely is, I hope he gets it together. But are you okay? I live close to Fort Lauderdale
@karinagrace ive done everything...he claims that isnt it & hes not freaking out or nervous. its bullshit
@meganeileen6, I honestly hate to drink lol. IDK how people can get drunk all the time 😭 I mean I like to sip on a drink but that's it. I turn red when I drink but that's not the point. Maybe it's time for a change especially if you honestly can't see him changing. I'll talk to you more about it in our message!
It's not right for him to be leaving you pain. But he just might be freaking out to the thought of adjusting to fatherhood. This could be a sign of anxiety. Talk to him about it and see how he feels about the baby coming so soon. We often forget as pregnant women how a man could feel. Try to get him to open up to you and if he won't tell him you need emotional support epically being from Ohio or your going to have to make a choice and move back.
I'm sorry I even mentioned it , that wasn't the least helpful of me. maybe you should just talk to him and see why is he ignoring you. I hope everything gets better for u
no he wouldnt tell me when he told me he was 5 min away at 315. theres too many for me to even guess. and exactly! hes not showing any progress & whos to say he'll stick to his word & do it. i can see him going out when shes 2 weeks old. @ngujen
@meganeileen6, he seriously needs to get his shit together for the sake of your family. Maybe he will change once she gets here but what if he doesn't? He isn't even showing any signs now that he's putting effort to do so. Do you know what bar he's at?
i cant trust him...i dont think anyone could under these circumstances. he says he isnt going to go out anymore once shes born. i say okay but going out 1 time a week until then gives you your frat boy fix. its like hes having a midlife crisis...@ngujen,
@meganeileen6, nothing wrong with being a forgiving and loving person. A person can only take and give so much before it isn't enough anymore, you know? You've done your part, it's his turn to do his. You are not dumb nor weak! You have hopes it's going to work out and nothing is wrong with that! Don't think like that. If you still think there's a chance he'll change, like deep down, see if you can work things out. But if you honestly cannot see him changing and cannot trust him anymore, do what you think is best.
@meganeileen6, I'm sorry you have to deal with this so far in to your pregnancy 😕 I wouldn't just assume he's cheating, guys can be insensitive jack asses and only think about themselves, but the likelihood that he's with another woman while his wife is due to give birth any day now is pretty slim I hope! Good luck with this, we are here for you mama!
ive given him so many chances. im so forgiving & quick to try to work it out & move on. i love him. but if i had a friend going through this, i would think shes dumb and weak for staying... @ngujen @blueberrybrewing
I agree with @blueberrybrewing I know it hurts thinking about it but you need to think about yourself and your baby girl. Maybe he'll eventually change and man up, but don't get your hopes up. You deserve 100%, not this.
nope. not a word. and what sucks about south florida is...casinos and certain bars never stop serving liquor...@ngujen,
It seems to me like he's not in this thing like he should be. You need a solid plan B. Since you have school until December, I would start planning my return back to Ohio... If he mans up and starts being considerate and responsible, fantastic. If not, then you know what your plan will be. @meganeileen6 I'm sorry 😕 this is much easier for me to talk about than it is for you to deal with...
@meganeileen6, you need to get to the hospital if you're still having those pains, I don't think it's normal to cramp this long and constant after a cervix check. Is he still not answering? Ugh if I lived near you I'd totally come get you to take you. This sucks, I'm sorry you're going through this.. :/
Gosh, I'm sorry but I just want to knock some sense into him.
@proudmommy3, why would you jump to the conclusion that he's cheating when you don't even know? she's already upset, that won't make her feel better. Not all men cheat. @monilovesautumn he's just being an asshole. @meganeileen6 I don't get why he's okay with acting like such an ass especially when you're in pain. You're almost due which means he needs to get his shit together and keep his phone on just incase you go into labor. You do what's best for you and the baby because it's obvious he isn't thinking about that at this moment.
i told him it feels like we are being put on the back burner too
yes. he did this last month...last Saturday & now tonight. tonight is the biggest slap in the face because he knew i called the hospital & wanted to go in to be checked because of how much pain ive been in & also our talk this week. i told him once a week is fine just make sure you answer your phone & dont drink more than 2 incase i do go into labor. his night out this week was Wednesday. and he promised not at all this weekend. @blueberrybrewing
@meganeileen6, when it comes down to it, you're the only person who can decide what's best for you...problem is you now have to also decide what's best for baby too. You need a husband who will make his family priority #1, not 5 or 6... Sometimes I believe in 2nd chances, but has he already used and abused his?
if you're in school as well it's definitely best to wait until it's over and the baby is here then you can make that decision to move back. I guess you will have to let him do what he does and try your best to concentrate on the baby. so sorry you're so close to having your baby and you have to go through this.
im currently in school. i would have to wait until december. we just got married in may... @mila05052016 @blueberrybrewing
that's beyond disrespectful and inconsiderate. you're pregnant and anything can happen to you or the baby at this point. girl I would be so furious my bag would be ready in the morning along with my ticket and cab reservation. I'm too emotional.
😕😕😕 so he's dropped the ball entirely. Would you be able to make the move back to Ohio this far along ? @meganeileen6
ive had the sit down convo with him. i had it this week with him. it was obviously pointless. its 6am here. hes still not back nor responding. im past pissed off. he told me last week he just didnt care he wont even make eye contact which he knows i consider a huge respect thing. i cant sleep until hes back....@blueberrybrewing,
✋🏻✋🏻✋🏻 @meganeileen6 forget cheating was even mentioned for this post... To be honest, whatever he's doing is pretty irrelevant at this point, the point is that he was being extremely unsupportive and insensitive by being so wishy washy in responding to you. If this is a trend, maybe it would be best to move to Ohio, but it could be worth it to have a sit down talk with him first about the severity/importance of his actions (or lack thereof). Try not to stress 😬💙
I'm not sure he is cheating he is just being a dick that's all. he knows you will be calling him but some men refuse to give up their lifestyles no matter what. just give him a wake-up call to chock him and show him how serious the pregnancy situation is. move back to Ohio if necessary with or without his approval to give him a taste of his own medicine. So sorry you have to go through this.
if you need to talk to someone you can always mail me. but , if he's not cheating I would definitely ask him when he gets in contact with you why has he been ignoring you .
screw him!!! that'd fucked up how you can cheat on your pregnant wife... men are so low and disgusting it's sickening. I know all men isn't like that but that right there is down low wrong smh. call the ambulance hun. you need to be seen now. I'm praying for you and baby .
@proudmommy3, pretty negative to just say "most likely he's cheating" way to make her feel better. @meganeileen6 sorry you're going through this love, if you need to talk I'm here! I hope you feel better and he comes to realize that he's being a jerk and that you deserve better. 💕💕
omg call the ambulance! & thats messed up most likely hes cheating so sad sorry girl hope you and baby r ok
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