will the Dr.office ask how old my baby's father is if he comes with me curious?

I think they will ask either way

@jdrose, I feel as if its none of their business

They will ask, I didnt bring mine with and they still asked.

My doctor didn't ask me anything about my baby's father..

@alayna22, I will just say were dating cause I don't need them in my business

Yeah I would do that because u don't need him getting in trouble.

@deiona_mom2b16, I know but they ask questions of abuse and everything I was 16 when I found out I was pregnant and my child's father was 18 my doctor was just concerned on any abuse and issues but we were fine

yeah cause I don't want any issues so I will just say he is not the father but my current "friend"

just a quick question... how old is he??

19

I think if the age gap is less than 5 years or something it doesnt matter and parental consent. Im not sure but each state has different laws

I'm scared because he just looks so older than me

@shortiebs, we are four years apart and I'm in illinois

http://m.chicagocriminaldefensefirm.com/Criminal-Defense/Sex-Crimes/Illinois-Sex-Crimes/Consensual-S

Looks like your state doesnt have an age clause. So he might get in trouble if someone reports it. You may want to research a bit more on this. Do your parents know him and his parents?

yes my mom knows but I will lie lol

Maybe you should take him in as a cousin or brother & say the father isn't involved, things are different when your a minor so if you were to tell them yall are dating they may go more into it then you'd like. Does your mom have to go with you ? @deiona_mom2b16

they never asked how old mine is.

I have an age gap of 10 years 6 months.. no issues at my doctors office

@mommytoaz, @aphrodite2014 so far they aren't asking any questions

@deiona_mom2b16, they more then likely won't ask any questions. it's not relevant to your pregnancy unless your TTC

I hope not but I think I got this

My boyfriend is 15 years older than me. They asked me before he was even there and were a little judge mental but fuck their opinions lol

hell yeah

I look 16 and my hubby looks like 35 (actually 23 and 27) .... No one has ever asked about his age unless medically relevant.