Health visitor is coming over in half an hour but I haven't been able to get dressed or tidy up because little man keeps wanting cuddles/feeding. I hope she doesn't mind or judge me for living like a pig!
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
May·
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@tuftyturtle,
May·
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Wow that's nice! @jade_17
Laura·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)
@may23, I think they visit under 19 year olds more regularly. If you tell them that you think you need more regular visits then they will come. They're there to help. my friends health visitor came to her house, made her a cup of tea, scrambled egg on toast. then told her to have a bath and go to bed whilst she watched the baby!
Jade·
Мама сына-младенца
Really? Well my son is 2 weeks old and I've only seen 3 midwives and 1 health visitor. But I suppose it depends on where you are! If they visit everyday then awesome stuff! :) @may23
May·
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Thanks @jade_17 , but I've heard that for 2 weeks they visit you everyday!
Jade·
Мама сына-младенца
@may23, they don't come every day but they're there for you when you need them :) there are a lot of free breast feeding clinics & you have at least 3 midwife home visits. You always have the support of other mums on this app too :)
May·
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Do they come home every day ? I am scared because I have nobody to help me so it would be great if they can come check on the baby and maybe help with the breastfeeding .
Jade·
Мама сына-младенца
@tiasohi1, @tuftyturtle @essex-angel haha! She turned out to be the loveliest health professional I've seen to date!
tia·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (26 нед.)
Haha don't worry - I was in pjs , breastfeeding when she was there . They honestly don't care x
Laura·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (25 нед.)
Oh don't worry. She would have seen all sorts. I had midwives come every day for two weeks and then the health visitor and I don't think I was dressed for any of them 😂
Jo·
Мама подростка
nobody with a small baby should have an immaculate tidy house lol i havent even had baby yet and mines a mess bcoz i cant bend down to pick things up, so i leave them 😂 xx