Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
Advice??my 6 year old is acting up... I know it might not help but my 6 year old raise his hand at me and call me fat before that he hit me and i say no because you know you cry. I took his tablet away and told him that he needs to stop. that got him more mad and thats when he did it.So i tell him he would stay with me these weekend and not with his dad. I let his dad know and he is not agreeing with my decision. He says he is going to talk to him but its been the 3rd time he talks to him and nothing. That doind that wouldn't help💁 ♀ 🤷 ♀
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
my baby daddy punched me in my nose twice. All because the phone he has I GAVE IT TO HIM! Its MyOld Phone And he been talking to this girl and so i said give me my phone back! I didnt give it to you for that reason. And i got it and he was trying to take it back and he hit me .
flower_princess·
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@bria.k, I apologized to him because I never meant any harm and he knows it .
Bria·
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I understand that but once it gets to that point it goes down hill. Like a line that can't be crossed.. Once it is, the boundary is gone and things will never be the same. It's so much easier to go too far after you've done it once.
flower_princess·
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@bria.k, we've never fought like that first time ever . We are more than a loving couple . We let each other know we love each other every night .
Bria·
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This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship and for your own good, his, and your babies I don't think you two should be together. It sounds toxic.
flower_princess·
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@momtonoasophia, I want to just give him the time to talk about it .. And I am I just need a way of distraction
Tiffany·
I know.I was the same. and it's harder with a child involved but I literally had to delete him and just let him text me first.when that didn't work cause I memorized his number I blocked him but my phone let me check spam messages so I would look at those every couple hours to see if he text. it helped a lot and since he missed my morning texts he eventually started messaging me @flower_princess
missing54user·
Just give him time honey. Sometimes we all need a little break. Good luck and wish you the best., @flower_princess
flower_princess·
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@faithfulness88, let's hope he gives me that second chance
flower_princess·
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@momtonoasophia, it's killing me 😭 and it's hard but I really am going to give him time because I feel like that's what he needs but my phone doesn't distract me from thinking about him .. I just can't get him out of my head @athenas_mommy I'm trying my hardest to give him space and time .. He told me he needed time alone .. Does that mean he doesn't want me anymore ?
missing54user·
@flower_princess, We all make mistakes and we learn from it and EVERYONE deserves a second chance.
flower_princess·
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@faithfulness88, I was scared myself when I pulled the knife on him I was seriously stupid to think I would make it better by pulling it out .
🍂🍁🍃 N'Dya (India) 🍃🍁🍂·
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He might just be shocked by everything & need time to process what happened
Tiffany·
I told you hun.don't force it. it'll push him away.he's not done with you but give him time.i told you he would be upset.that's one of the things you guys have to cover after u give him time.@flower_princess,
missing54user·
@flower_princess,
missing54user·
I don't think he wants you out his life but just be careful. Try not to do that again for your own good. I know sometimes we can't control our anger but try your best mama.
flower_princess·
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@faithfulness88, no, when I was hitting him he grabbed me and just held me but since I kept fighting him off we fell to the ground .. That's it @athenas_mommy cops call it kidnapping cause he took my phone so I couldn't keep communications with my family, it was the dumbest fight we have had . But since I did the whole knife thing it got way more serious ..
🍂🍁🍃 N'Dya (India) 🍃🍁🍂·
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I mean I think it depends on what led you to pull out the knife every situation & man is different but it sounds like he's not done
missing54user·
Did he do anything bad to you?