So as you know, we're on the path of adoption and I found this woman online in a pretty popular pregnancy forum. She…
So as you know, we're on the path of adoption and I found this woman online in a pretty popular pregnancy forum. She made a post about possibly giving her twins for adoption and after talking it over with my significant other, we decided there would be no harm in emailing her. I'll post her response in the comments but please tell me, is this how it normally is or is this person possibly using others for gain?
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@jaye.gatsby, yeah thay makes it hard... but atleast maybe they can atleast warn parents.. or maybe see about warning the hospital or something who knows.. if they are twins she might not go full term and end up in the NICU..
lee0924·
Мама сына-младенца
I figured that ...at lest you tried hun
Shannon·
@lee0924 @fallwithautumn @latia0321 @cookiemonster1216 @aphrodite2014 @sunshine1 so I called what I believed to be a cps near her and they said they would look into it but since all I have is an email address, it would be hard to track 😢
lee0924·
Мама сына-младенца
Please report this Hun,I worry for their safety
Autumn🍂🍃🍂🍃·
Мама четверых детей
this is sketchy as fuck. report her asap and go through an agency OR look into "foster to adopt" it actually makes adoption free since you're initially a foster parent
tia·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (29 нед.)
If you want a successful LEGAL adoption do research on the gooooood agency.. Not just thru an person u know? Anythjng can go wrong
Elizabeth·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Yeah, that is super sketchy. I'd report her to someone. I highly highly doubt that its legal to sell your babies.
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@jaye.gatsby, I'd google CPS offices there
jordan·
В ожидании первенца
Yeah I would call cps. Give them the info on how you found her and how you have contacted her. Let them know what she has told you in regards to her selling her babies. That's just so horrible. She could sell them to a pedophile and not even care!
Shannon·
@aphrodite2014 she said riverside, California
Amanda·
В ожидании первенца
That seems sketchy I'm sorry hun. it could be legit and is maybe just a woman who doesn't know better but all my family is adopted. it seems more like she's trying to sell her twins than find a good home
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
you could call and report to a CPS office where she is at
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
it sounds like a scam for sure or black market! I wouldn't Contact further.. I'm sure if she is pregnant then CPS will be invoked as soon as she delivers anyway
Shannon·
@jortiz1290 how would I report her?
jordan·
В ожидании первенца
Total scam. It is illegal to get paid for giving your child up for adoption. You are supposed to go to an agency and then you could have your medical expenses and such paid for. I would honestly report this person because if she is in fact pregnant what she's doing is illegal.
Shannon·
@liamandaria we are looking, just friends have told us about how a lot of people or agencies make posts online and to just explore looking at them
Laqueesha 😋😘·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
I wouldnt want her to give her twins to anyone if this is real. but I wouldn't fall for it. it seem to fake. all she worried about is money. money. money..
Shannon·
@threekings101415 I just hope the twins will be okay and not given to just anyone
deleted-user·
sounds very sketchy.,, shes just selling her "twins" doesn't even seem legal. i would stay away from this..
Kamry💗·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (24 нед.)
@jaye.gatsby, I'm sorry hun!! have you looked into adoption agencies ?
Laqueesha 😋😘·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
sound like she in it for the money. continue to look don't settle for the first thing you see. this don't seem right at all...
Shannon·
@sophiesmom7 just so sad 😢
Shannon·
@liamandaria she was in a pregnancy forum
kcal·
В ожидании первенца
I think she's trying to scam people for money. I think putting your child up for adoption through an agency is free the ones that pay are the ones doing the adopting. If she was concerned about them having a good family she would do it the right way through a place that does complete background checks ect
missing26user·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)
Yeah it might be a scam so be careful. Expecially since she wouldn't give you her number. If I was putting my children up for adoption I would definitely want to hear the person's voice. :/
Kamry💗·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (24 нед.)
@jaye.gatsby, It doesn't really seem like she's worried about the babies she's actually after how much money she can get . and you never know all that can be fake. how did you find this woman ?
Shannon·
@sophiesmom7 @mommyslittleman then at the end when she's saying she doesn't want me to scam her out of two FREE babies...you don't sell them man 😢
missing26user·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)
Exactly. Cause to me it just sounds like she would give them to a criminal if they were offering the most money.
Shannon·
@sophiesmom7 totally..I jusy hope whomever she chooses actually are safe
mommyslittleman·
Who knows if there really is babies that even exist.
missing26user·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)
Sounds like she is just in it for the money. If I was in her position I would have expressed multiple times that I was doing what was best for my babies. and that I was not in it for the money. She was constantly talking about the money.
Shannon·
@liamandaria I just pray for the twins safety 😢
Kamry💗·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (24 нед.)
@jaye.gatsby, I agree with @mommyslittleman she even wants the first payment just to see if you'll be a good family . and the fact she not going through an agency is really sketchy cause she can take your money and then not even contact you after.
Shannon·
@kcal12 ☝
kcal·
В ожидании первенца
I would be very careful with this
Shannon·
@mommyslittleman I'm not sure. I emailed her back and let her know that if money was the deciding factor here then we weren't interested. Sounds like she'll give them away to anyone with the right price tag and that could be anyone 😢
mommyslittleman·
She needs a payment first? No way. Sketchy.
mommyslittleman·
That already seems pretty sketchy. So she's not planning to go through an agency?
Shannon·
@liamandaria what do you think of this?
Kamry💗·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (24 нед.)
good luck!! hopefully everything works out!:)
Shannon·
part two
Shannon·
part one