Okay.. So I got my anatomy scan for baby girl last week.. & the radiologist(my Drs office has an actual OBGYN radiologist do ultrasounds) kept taking measurements of her head and spent a lot of time on her head! She ended up telling me that she sees excess skin and/or fluid on my baby girls neck and she said that's associated with Down's Syndrome. My OB called later and said it could even be a tumor or it could be nothing.. Which scares the FUCK out of me.. I did end up doing the blood tests I originally opted out of doing to see if she has Down's. Has this EVER happened to anyone else? What was the outcome? It's not like if she has Down's it's the end of the world, because that's not it at all. Any parent would feel this way over that kind of news.. So please don't say "you'll love her even more" or "she'll be perfect either way" because I know that already and I get frustrated when people tell me that.